Ladies my mom is in desperate need of advice! I miss out of ideas. 😨😨😨 My mom is a foster mom and…
Ladies my mom is in desperate need of advice! I miss out of ideas.
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My mom is a foster mom and she has a 4 year old boy who has down syndrome and some other mental illness (still trying to identify per doctor) but we have a problem.
At night he bashes his head on his crib. Really hard. like he does it so hard he bleeds everywhere. he's on a waiting list to see a specialist to get a helmet so he can't hurt himself but it's like another 4 month wait. she's on a list so she will take him sooner if possible but it hasn't happened. We tried buying different helmets in the meantime but he always seems to pull it down around his neck at night and we don't want him to choke himself. She can't put pads on the sides if the crib because he puts everything over his face.
we're getting really worried because last night he was bashing his head so hard there is blood everywhere. We're afraid he's gonna cracked his skull the pain doesn't even phase him.
Any ideas? What do we do?
destineec·
Мама сына (1 год)
do you keep a light on maybe he's afraid I've seen it before with my lil brother play soothing sounds in the room
nicole·
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Try doing the tie blanket around the sides of his crib like the hole side so its stuck he cant pull it down and you could put even more padding in between without him being able to some how hurt him self
Amanda·
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Yeah we tried the light it didn't work :( @destineec
Amanda·
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I'll ask if she's tried @lucky20074 thank you
Nichole Schaffer·
I know it might sound funky but what about those pool noodles and duct tape just saying it might work
renee'·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
its a rhythmic habit. my 4yr old bumps her head still. he probably do it to go to sleep or release stress while he sleep..have to find something to match his rhythmic sleeping patterns see if that helps.
missing432user·
I like the pool noodle idea. My best friend's little sister is Autistic and she has fits sometimes and they have used this calming vest. It helps them feel secure. I don't know where they got it though.
Amanda·
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Yeah she said he somehow got through the blankets @lucky20074
nicole·
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Wow
Amanda·
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We haven't tried pool noodles but she's gonna! thank you @momtobe092015
Nichole Schaffer·
your welcome just was thinking outside the box
nicole·
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He might feel tight in a crib at 4 also the have beds with rims even inflatable beds but if he needs a crib till figured out use a pack and play mesh sides you only have to worry about the corners
Taylor·
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It sounds like he has autism. :/
ak16·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Try letting him sleep on a mattress, I've known someone who has downs and he hits his head even sometimes for no reason, as it seems to us, he is 20 now, maybe if someone tries laying down with him it could also help, sometimes they just want to be held