Lol right! I made my bf look down there after I thought I was healed. my gyn didn't tell me how many stitches either. when I was having my baby I asked him if he was going to do an episiotomy and he just didn't and I tore. he didn't tell me how many stitches either but it seemed like it took a long time for him to sew me up

@mommysarah7, I'm terrified to look lol. I refuse until I can tell I'm completely recovered. I mean he didn't even tell me how many stitches he had to use...all I heard was one suture pack!

Ya I would think that he would only try if you were comfortable with it. right when I turned 6 weeks pp my period started so I was bleeding to. I had stitches to. I didn't look at my vag the whole 6 weeks lol I was afraid. I'm glad it's all back to normal now! haha

Hmm @mommysarah7 I hope he doesn't try. Like I said I'm bleeding kinda heavy and I don't see the point. I did have stitches though and is like to know how those healed. Maybe I'll just get all that checked at my next gyno visit.

when I went for my pp checkup my gyn did not check me. I asked him if he needed to and he said no only If I want him to.

I'll have to refuse...I can't imagine how they'd check me with how much I'm bleeding.

They will still check you , but you can refuse if you wanted to.