Need some advice: so on July 19th we found out I was probably going to miscarry our baby. which I did... Everything is…
Need some advice:
so on July 19th we found out I was probably going to miscarry our baby. which I did... Everything is just about over.. I want to try again when it's safe, like sooner rather than later and my boyfriend has decided he wants to wait. (maybe I'm totally stupid, or maybe my hormones are just whack) but I feel like since he doesn't want to try again anytime soon that he doesn't love me the same and may leave me... I'm probably just being over sensitive. He's been to EVERY single appointment.
Nikki·
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I know how bad the pain is, and I know you just wanna be happy again in what seemed like the happiest days of your life, just remember to give it time and it will all work out for you. Also, try not to obsess over getting pregnant again. I did when I went through it, and it took the fun out of everything and just made me feel worse. You guys should be alright, he's probably healing himself. You got this! Stay strong.
Chelsie·
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He's definitely upset then... And he obviously really cares. I wouldn't worry about scaring him off, just don't pressure him. And @tae23 is right, the longer you wait the healthier you will be for it.
Nancy·
Мама сына-младенца
Maybe that's it . He's seen how bad it's messed me up. i cried hysterically one night and he just held me while i was practically hyperventilating and told me everything was gonna be ok... Also told me, baby your gonna make me cry it kills me to see you hurting like this.
Bethany·
Мама сына (1 год)
yeah I agree with them ^^^^ my sister n law miscarried and when she was ready to try again my brother didnt want to. she asked me to talk to him cuz he woukdnt tell her y. I asked him and he said he hated seeing her hurt like that and it broke his heart when they lost the baby. that was back in 2013. now they r getting ready to have a baby. so just give him time and let him know that if he is worried or scared that it is ok to be. that u guys will get through it together.
Nancy·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm just so emotional lately and I feel like that's gonna push him away.
missing144user·
Мама сына-младенца
the longer you wait the healthier it will be for you to try again. I know your anxious but just know he doesn't love you any less and is most. likely really fearful for what could happen if you concieve again soon.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I agree with ^^@ftmbabyboy11
Chelsie·
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It's hormones playing a factor... Also he is also probably deeply saddened about what happened (guys tend to hide their deep down emotions) and that may be his reason why... Don't force him, just wait a little while and see how things progress.