Need some advice:
so on July 19th we found out I was probably going to miscarry our baby. which I did... Everything is just about over.. I want to try again when it's safe, like sooner rather than later and my boyfriend has decided he wants to wait. (maybe I'm totally stupid, or maybe my hormones are just whack) but I feel like since he doesn't want to try again anytime soon that he doesn't love me the same and may leave me... I'm probably just being over sensitive. He's been to EVERY single appointment.
He's definitely upset then... And he obviously really cares. I wouldn't worry about scaring him off, just don't pressure him. And @tae23 is right, the longer you wait the healthier you will be for it.
Maybe that's it . He's seen how bad it's messed me up. i cried hysterically one night and he just held me while i was practically hyperventilating and told me everything was gonna be ok... Also told me, baby your gonna make me cry it kills me to see you hurting like this.
yeah I agree with them ^^^^ my sister n law miscarried and when she was ready to try again my brother didnt want to. she asked me to talk to him cuz he woukdnt tell her y. I asked him and he said he hated seeing her hurt like that and it broke his heart when they lost the baby. that was back in 2013. now they r getting ready to have a baby. so just give him time and let him know that if he is worried or scared that it is ok to be. that u guys will get through it together.
I'm just so emotional lately and I feel like that's gonna push him away.
the longer you wait the healthier it will be for you to try again. I know your anxious but just know he doesn't love you any less and is most. likely really fearful for what could happen if you concieve again soon.
It's hormones playing a factor... Also he is also probably deeply saddened about what happened (guys tend to hide their deep down emotions) and that may be his reason why... Don't force him, just wait a little while and see how things progress.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Are there learning programs for the summer for 1st graders?? I'm so sad my son has failed and he will be in 1st grade again. 😭😭 he has learning disabilities but I feel like he takes advantage of that and he always wants to be playing and on the phone all the time like I'm so over it! I try my best to teach him and it's like he completely doesn't care and he's only 7years old.. Smh idk what to do.
So me and my fiance we agreed to wait before trying again. Well tonight he just told me that he wants me to be pregnant again!! I understand he wants a family but I'm just not ready. I'm so scared of losing another baby!! 😩😩
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
I swear I'm like the only person with over 800 post.. I see people in 200s -& 300s mostly 😑😑 maybe I talk alot lol
I know how bad the pain is, and I know you just wanna be happy again in what seemed like the happiest days of your life, just remember to give it time and it will all work out for you. Also, try not to obsess over getting pregnant again. I did when I went through it, and it took the fun out of everything and just made me feel worse. You guys should be alright, he's probably healing himself. You got this! Stay strong.