why am I always a target when my boyfriend and his mother get into it. this is the text I just received: Tee if you guys…
why am I always a target when my boyfriend and his mother get into it. this is the text I just received: Tee if you guys can't pay your rent you need to go back to work...you cannot take care of a baby if you don't have money for rent...and we are barley getting by ourselves. You n RJ need to rethink what you are doing... Rjs dad has already said he is not babysitting......you keep saying you have money but nothing getting paid... Rj hair is a mess, he has no phone,if you are his girlfriend and you have money you should make sure he is taken care of...what are you going to do with a baby...we have welcome you into our home since you were 16yrs...your mother doesn't do anything....you get job after job...good jobs work four months and quit....you could have made so much money for yourself that you will need for your baby Rj is our son and our responsible,you two together are not doing well at all...we have given all we can...if u want to stay together I pray you find a way...school is
definitely not an option with a baby coming..you two need to go into the service, where you can get training, housing, and guidance. I love you both but you two have to to better if you plan on having a baby. You, Rj, an baby should be the main concern no one else.
Kristina·
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She makes good points. Very respectful.
Kristina·
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But of course I don't know the whole situation.
Maci Case·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
It's hard. But if you do work why is she complaining about it?! Even if it's always a different job, at least your willing to work.. Raising a baby is hard, very hard even when your married & financially stable. But always remember God has a plan & wouldn't have given yall this baby if he didn't think yall were the best parents for it! He will never put you through something he couldn't pull you through. ❤️ good luck Hun!
Capri·
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I agree with both women above. Its hard to hear but it comes from someone who knows you both very well
Neshaa·
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she doesn't know me all that well. if you guys knew what the truth is you'd understand why I'M upset. when I was 16 I was paying their bills. I was feeding and clothing their son. when we where homeless no one helped us we slept in a car and used the bathroom in bushes. I graduated high-school at 16. they toook my financial aid. they had me and his nephew pay the rent for years. they have never taken care of me a day in my life. I've been taking care of myself. I lived with them with the cost of paying for rent and their cars and a motorcycle that is why I'M pissed. she has told me I brought her son down I don't take care of her son and now I can't take care of my baby. I spent all my money on getting a place that not one person helped me pay for. so yea after I have dished out over 3,000 dollars I would like help when on short on rent. @rookiemom @preggerstone @macicase
Neshaa·
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I stopped working because I was put on bedrest because I was at risk for a a miscarriage. I choose to go to school to better myself so I can provide for my child.
Maci Case·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
Oh Hun I understand completely! Just don't let her bring you down. Focus on you , your baby and your BF/hubby. ❤️
Macie·
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I think she was being immature and judgmental. The issue should have be talked about with you and him. Not sent via email/ text message etc. yall have a baby on the way and she's charging you rent?? How does she expect you guys to save up to move out. Don't let her tell you that you can't go to school to make a better future for your child. You can look into government assistance that will help you pay child support while you go to school and/or work. You can do all things through christ who strengthens you. Surround yourself with individuals that encourage and motivate you. You have to be the best that you can be for your kid.
Macie·
Мама троих детей
Also I know she didn't tell you that you need to be taking care of her son!!! It needs to be the other way around!!! It's not your fault his hair is messed up and he doesn't have a phone!!! Girl you got me going lol... Pray about it though, everything will work out.
Neshaa·
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Thank you @macieka