I'm becoming really frustrated at the lack of sleep. I suffer with restless legs and back ache. He moans he's knackered after 13 hours kip in the spare room. Soon as his head touches the pillow he's flat out. I've mentioned a few times as a wind down can he give me a back and leg massage most nights and ill give him one if he wants. does it happen. like heck!! so I can't settle as he's away snoring, I've come in spare room again. why are men so selfish? they don't have to deal with anything during pregnancy. A helping hand wouldn't go a miss once in a while x