sorry for tmi but is this a mole or what it's uncomfortable and hurts a little it's down there on my…

Doesn't look like a mole. Looks like a pimple.

I go back to doctor next week I was wondering cause it hurts a li

looks kinda like a cyst I have those from time to time try taking a warm tea bag and pressing it on it that'll make the swelling go down that's what I did to mine

It kinda looks like a ingrown hair

do your thighs or that area rub when you walk? if so that's what's causing it. I get those kinda sorta pimples kinda irritating!

Yes a little bit I also weT a pad a lot cause my bladder sucks and if I don't I'll pee all over myself

yes looks like an ingrown hair happened to me before..try popping it or else it can become infected and puss can come out of it

I'll try I was scared to pop lol did not know what it was so yea