Okay so I have to vent. I am not in any kind of rush to have a baby, I believe it will happen when…
Okay so I have to vent. I am not in any kind of rush to have a baby, I believe it will happen when It's meant to happen. Well Kyle's mom is soo impatient. And honestly impatient ain't even the word! She is always on my ass asking questions and bugging me about the whole TTC thing. And I'm not saying every once in a while asking how things are going.. I'm saying she's asking me every day! And knows my cycle by heart! Not only that but she shares my PERSONAL business with her younger sons girlfriend!!! I feel like they are both invading my privacy! This is supposed to be a beautiful time in me and Kyle's life. Honestly I feel like it should only involve me and him! No one else! Today it went TO far! I went to visit her today and she said "Me and "Jordan" (her younger sons gf) have been talking and we found some vitamins that can help you concieve?!!! FIRST OF ALL!!!!!!! I done gave birth to 2 children in my life! And RECENTLY been "checked" and passed on terms of fertility. I am perfectly able to get pregnant and carry a child when ever MY body is ready to have MINE & KYLES baby!! We haven't even been trying long enough for her to suggest something like that. It really just pisses me off and makes me not want to try! Not only that, but MY 5 year old little girl recently passed and she keeps calling her "her baby" bitch really nooooo SHE is MY BABY!!! And will ALWAYS be MY babyyy! Is it just me y'all should all this be bugging me because it REALLY is BUGGING me!!! 😩😭😩😭😤😤😤😤😤😤
Kay80·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You have every right to be angry at her! I sure would get pissed off if it was me. Im sorry you have to deal with that kinda shit, she should mind her own business. 💕
dkk·
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All of that would bother me, she's going way too far with everything.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Ugh, I know that's how I feel! I have even asked Kyle to say something. Because I nicely asked her "yesterday" to stop asking me if I started my period and to stop asking me to take tests when I just told her that I took one already that day! It's ridiculous!!!! Kyle agrees with me but don't like to argue so he told me to just stay away from them. And I'm like....howwww????? Lol
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@maxs_mommy80, 😫😫
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dkk, thank you! Glad to know I'm not just being mean or anything! Because I'm seriously on the verge of snapping!!!! And when I do..at least I know I'm not the only one that knows it's too much.
Kay80·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@uhmandaxconrad92, I was thinking the same that maybe Kyle should say something to his mom. Maybe "then" she realizes she is going to far. I remember my MIL was asking me if Im pregnant every freaking time she would come over to our house. I got once so angry and told "Im not fucking pregnant Im just fucking fat"😂😂 that shut her completly. It doesnt have anything to do with what you dealing with ur MIL but my point is they can be pain in the ass sometimes even if they mean well.
mmora·
Мама сына-младенца
It's so hard because you know that they just care and are excited for you. But you need some space. If you are trying to conceive, it's between you and your man! Everyone else just needs to be patient. It'll happen when it happens. And it doesn't help that everyone else thinks they need to help you conceive. It takes one man and one woman to make a baby, not the entire extended family! Lol
dkk·
В ожидании первенца
I would be too, all of the things she's getting into with you is seriously way too personal to be discussing with you, especially to be discussing with someone else. That is extremely disrespectful
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I swear lol @mmora you got that right lol! And @maxs_mommy80 your so funny. I thought being honest and asking her to stop would make her hush... But nope if anything it made her be a smart ass and ask more just because she can.
mmora·
Мама сына-младенца
As a new mom, I really struggle with all the advice I get honestly. Sometimes I have to calm down and remind myself that they are just trying to help. But sometimes you just need them to butt out and let you figure it out on your own. I feel you girl!
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah I had that problem with my daughter...it makes you find the true color of your mom especially. If your not doing it the way she did it your not doing it right. Blahhhhhhh!!!! 👎👎👎👎
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mmora,
mmora·
Мама сына-младенца
Lol yes!! There is more than one way to raise a baby. I hope you get your rainbow baby when you and your body are ready❤️
Lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
yes, you do. I honestly wouldn't share that with my mom and we are close, it's none of their business. Zac is bad about confrontation, he hates it because his mom is so easy to fight, but he knows to pick his battles too, and honestly tell him how deeply awful it makes you feel and how you've tried, and she won't listen to you since your just the daughter in law, and it'd mean more coming from him.