RANT!! I just got home from work & of course I walk in the door to a crying baby (as usual) but this time my son's leg…
RANT!!
I just got home from work & of course I walk in the door to a crying baby (as usual) but this time my son's leg was stuck in between the crib for lord knows how long & I had to scream for my boyfriend to help me get it out. I was so scared & so pissed all at the same time. I was scared because Oliver could have broken his leg & his stupid dad would not have heard his cries for help & pissed off because his stupid father can wake up when our son is crying & needs him.
I know he was stuck like that for awhile because he had a big mark on his leg that you only get from something being on your skin too long. When we finally got his leg out & I held him he hugged me so tight & when his daddy tried to give him a kiss he moved his head away & buried it in my neck. Not only was his leg stuck but he was also very hungry!! He ate 7 oz of milk plus half a jar of green beans. I'm so beyond tired of his dad ignoring him when he cries.
Valerie·
That's so sad😔 Maybe you need a different care giver... Like ASAP
Karen·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Oh wow, I'm sorry you're going through this situation. How old is your son? Have you talked to him, not arguing and using bad words, just a one on one grownups conversation, to explain to him how you're feeling and reminding him that he is not just a guy living by himself, now he is a man with a huge responsibility but first that he is a FATHER
Shawnee·
Мама сына-младенца
omg girl!!!! no no no. sit down and have a serious conversation with your boyfriend.
Karen·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
maybe not a different caregiver, maybe the father should get a better job or a second job so you can stay at home with your son 😉
iloveyou·
Мама сына-младенца
@valerie_jean, I would but we can't afford a care giver & the only people I trust to watch him is his grandparents. @karendiaz573 I have talked to him tons of times about this & he just tells me that he gets up all the time with him but he needs his sleep too so after a while he stops checking on him. It makes me so mad because I work, clean, cook, & take care of our son while only getting maybe 5 hours of sleep a day while he gets a full 8 or 9. I feel like a single mother in a relationship.
Valerie·
Go to your local jobs and family services. Idk if that's what it's called where you live but here in Ohio they give people free day care if you're working or in school. They'll give you a list and they let you check the places out and quiz down the people who work there before you pick a place lol.
Valerie·
Me, personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving my son with his dad knowing his dad gives up on my son and doesn't take care of him well enough. I definitely understand your circumstance. I'm a single mom and his dad doesn't take care of him or ask to see him either.
Bryawna Farmer·
В ожидании первенца
Oh my god that just breaks my heart! And then for him to say he needs sleep to so he stops checking on him?! My god! No no no that's not okay. Baby first! What doesn't he understand 😨
Lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry. Luckily, rarely that happens with us anymore, I would lose it on him every time he would, and if he didn't wake up I punch him a little, not hard or bad, to get him to wake up and focus. But that's ridiculous, if you want sleep, don't have a kid, imagine how you feel, you're exhausted, and not his only parent, and he can handle to lose some sleep, he wouldn't be crying if he didn't need him. I'm sorry, he needs a lecture or a major wake up call.