i'm so depressed everyone. it is just sucky ...being pregnate means i cant drink energy drinks..beer..or meds...so i drink tea. to calm me down. before i panic. id probably not even drink beer just cus it will give me a downer. so im feeling like my marriage is a big lie. my husband has always been shady and i thought i could just let it go cus benefits outweigh the negs...but this year he has been sweet. yet when i got preggy he was like no ur gonna be sickly..and he was right. now he seems on board and he shows excitement at random times when we are for example together. but due to shadyness...my sister said he will soon leave me...just cus babies bring a lot of stress to relationships. and she says she doesnt see him happy with the pregnacy at all. im going through a honeymoon phase with him...and i cant enjoy it just because of depression and the expectation that everything is jist going to blowup in my face. i dunno how to feel better when in the last two months my health and my sons has been affected a lot. plus all this drama in my head. so many girls here really r struggling and i feel like im just looking for something to feel bad about. :(. what can i do? sorry for this long post but i needed to vent :(
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aww guys it means so much for u to reply to my post. i really dont have many people in my life due to my own isolations. @mssjudyk @jhordan23 . im doing the one day at a time. just sometimes it gets to me. i learned the hard way people dont like depressed people lol. my husband is the first to remind me of this. when he sees im down he goes down too. sucks. but he isnt much of help when im sad. so i try to not show him my depression...just cause his reaction makes mine worse. but my obvious signs are there. :(. today my son got diagnosed with asthma. and im contemplating losing money on my cats and getting rid of them. i also have a dog but my hubby will not let go yet. and i feel the cats can influence more allergies...due to kitty litter and their groomig ect.
@yummycake, ...ill keep u and ur family n my prayers...just remember one day @ time...u got this!! :)
think positive thoughts as soon as your feeling down... seriously. .. if u can't, try looking up some funny YouTube videos on the spot...
the only thing that helps my depression is when I feel good about myself. You can't rely on anyone to make you happy. when you're happy you attract happy :-)
thank you. @jhordan23 i think im just dealing with prednisone induced depression...i sure hope so... dont want this to be the state im in for the whole pregnacy....its my third pregnacy. and it was suppose to be the only pregnacy with no hubby/ life dramas. everything on this front is great...its just the health issues.
Good Morning sunshine!! Im not married but being prego for me has never been fun. Some women love it and I praise them. Its not easy! Just embrace ur bringing a new life thats what keeps me going and not being so negative nancy! Ull b a great mother once u get thru this hump! If u eva need to chat DM me always have an open ear!!
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My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
did every ones SO go to EVERY dr appointment with them?? im at my appointment and its not an ultrasound or anything so i told my boyfriend he can stay home and sleep... im here and everyone has their guy with them.. im feeling lonely now:/
In need of some help. My son is extremely tired and upset. He keeps screming for his dad and he wont go to bed. I dont know what to do. He has been cranky for over an hour but he just started screaming :/ im so lost. I feel so bad for him
im just so mad at this point I baby sit my nephew EVERY DAY since he was born ... he doesn't listen to anyone.. Im having major tummy issues today been running to the bathroom and look what he's doing to my mother's stove and her spoons .. this happened in 5 minutes of me being in the bathroom.. im crying because I feel like he just doesn't care and no matter what I say to him or my family everything is all my fault
So my hubby has his friends over and they are drinking coronitas and I just really want to drink one lol but idk if it's not safe or if it's okay if I just drink one . Help !