I'm so worried right now! We have a 2 year old and and an almost 2 month old. And my fiancée messaged me this morning telling me his bank account is negative $425. Obviously I asked him why and he tells me he ordered something and it went over and with overdraft fees it was that much. He kept saying he was ashamed is why he didn't tell me this morning. But idk how we are going to pay rent. We only have $150 now after he got paid this morning. And our rent is $515. And we don't get money again tell the 10th. Rent is due the 5th. And we are low on food. My Grandparents said they will get us some food if we need it but idk what to do.
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Jackie Desirae HensleyМама двоих (младенец)
@dianne0825, Yes he said he just said he as ashamed and that he thought we had enough. @kcal12 No. We had already used it. I didn't know we were that low on money when he ordered it cause he takes care of the money since he's the one working.
kcalВ ожидании первенца
Can he return the item and get the money back?? And usually you should have a grace period for rent and if u go passed that there's a late charge but idk where u live could be different. Just pray about it I'm sure everything will work out. But I know it's hard not to stress
dianne1211В ожидании первенца
have you asked him? @jackiemommyof2
Jackie Desirae HensleyМама двоих (младенец)
@dianne0825, I just really really need it this time. She's a really nice lady and she has helped us before so I'm thinking she will. We literally have no extra money except his tips. Idk why he ordered anything
dianne1211В ожидании первенца
she should especially if it's not like you do this every time sometimes life just has a way of testing us sometimes way more times then we need lol @jackiemommyof2
Jackie Desirae HensleyМама двоих (младенец)
@dianne0825, I'm going up there tomorrow to ask if she can. She's let us once before but said she wouldn't again. They first time though was awhile ago and the only time it was late so I'm hoping she will let me.
Jackie Desirae HensleyМама двоих (младенец)
@islanddreamer07, I can babysit a friends kid for some money when she needs it.
dianne1211В ожидании первенца
also ask whoever it is you rent through if they can give you until the 10th and explain the situation as best as you can
usually they are willing to work with you because after all we are all humans and sometimes things happen the worse they can say is no but at least asking will open the opportunity for a yes
RachelМама двоих (2 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
go ask dshs about TANF and visit the food bank every week. spaghetti and rice was our main meal during hard times. Is there some babysitting or other side jobs you could do for neighbors?
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Oh I see well everything will work out momma
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