Shit but the old song, kill them with kindness

If you two arent together I wouldnt waste my breath

Thank you 😘 @babyhawkins2015

@hueysmommy12, - I was like that for years...too nice. but after losing a few close people to me, I learned. I am praying for you to have the strength to NOT be so nice anymore. lol

F that B*** curse her out tell her stop texting him like wtf. But if she still texting and feel like that he must be responding at some point & shes preg I'd raise red flags

That's definitely a conversation you have with him first

@hueysmommy12, I definitely agree but that's the fault of your child's father not hers she's only doing what he's allowing her to do. you talk to him set rules etc if your demands aren't met you get rid of him

I'm crazy but not that crazy lol @no3lastone4me I'm too pregnant for all that

Doesn't matter im 9 months pregnant with your child I deserve a lot more respect especially cause im not doing that shit to him we live in the same house I do his fucking laundry he drives my car for crying out loud ... You don't tell another girl who is pregnant by someone else & married that you love her .. You should be focusing on me & the child were about to have . @sashagaimalcolm @islandftm

@hueysmommy12 Shew your alot more calm than I am!!! I would have blew up on both of them and told him to get LOST!!! It takes 2 to cheat!!! He has done something to make her "love him". So if it were me I'd just tell him to hit the road, your better than that!!! Make him beg!! lol Go CRAZY on him hehe start throwing stuff haha that's what I do. Let the crazy out. If you have it in you that is ;)

Yes! why not just go over it with your bd it's his job to make it stop if he doesn't then he's not for u

I wouldn't do it if you're not with the guy. Basically he's free to do what he pleases

Yes thank you ; 😔 I get told that a lot ; that's what's wrong with me I'm too freaking nice && I let a lot of shit slide cause I prefer not to talk about it && get emotional .. I hate crying so if i don't talk or address it , then I eventually get over it but it still plays in the back of my mind . @babyhawkins2015

Mhm ; I don't think I can be nice but I'll try . At this point it's just like I'm tired of the shit @camillesmom

@hueysmommy12, - Bless your heart! Life is too short to hold back what we really feel. Tell him you're true feelings and ask for his...be completely honest with each other, even if you or him feels it will hurt. It gives you both the opportunity to figure out what each of you want to do...stay or walk. You both owe it you yourselves and most importantly, your children. Trust me, I been there, I am much older than many of the mommies on here and have experienced almost every type of relationship out there. Honesty is the best, even though it hurts like hell sometimes.

So then take the matters into your own hands, but I'd do it with kind words, don't be mean or else she's going to think she got what she wanted, to get a reaction or of you.

Been there & done that 😔 @camillesmom

So confront you boyfriend and tell him, if he doesn't handle it, you will.

@camillesmom, this bitch is like a grade a stalker like we've been together for 6 years & I always catch him & her talking she had sex with his best friend at our house she has a husband but yet is telling my bd that she loves him ; && im just like why are you entertaining this bitch like I'd never have sex with your friends that's a no no .. Like clearly the bitch ain't trustworthy.. If I wasn't pregnant I'd beat her ass . I'm tired of talking

I know ; im like such a bad detective cause once I see something it's writing all on my face that I know & that im pissed off . @babyhawkins2015 I said something about it last night but I kept saying I DONT CARE , because I knew if we got into it if start crying .

The was once I caught my husband taking to some chick at the beginning of the relationship, and he left his phone at home, so I went through it, and texted her and just flat out told her he's with me and they NEED to stop talking, my husband says they were just friends but from texts it didn't look that way, and then litetally like a month ago he brought up that girl telling me where she works or some crap, and I wad like ummmm have you talked to her or how do you know that, and he was like babe, I think you scared her, she's to scared to talk to me, I said good let's keep it that way! And ever since I confronted him about that situation I haven't had a problem with that some and weer have been happy as ever! (He never cheated on me physically with the girl. Just didn't like his conversation)

@hueysmommy12, - I am so sorry love! That's a tough situation! Have you talked openly to him about it?

@hueysmommy12, - That's confusing...ugh. Men are so inconsiderate sometimes!

I didn't get to go thru his messages but I assume so @andersongirl

I hoping she's pregnant by her husband , but my bd has some little boy newborn onesies in his closet & when I was lurking on Facebook I found out she having a boy @babyhawkins2015

I'd tell her husband, but chances are he's not going to believe it...

I would screenshot what she is sending to your bd and send it to her husband, bypass her trifling ass lol

I didn't think I was , but then again we aren't together but we still have sex & he still calls me " babe " && is all over me .. I thought about telling her husband . @babyhawkins2015 @sashagaimalcolm @kris-tee-nah @marianac123

Is he replying to her messages? If he is I wouldn't. Now, if he isn't then I would message her!!

@hueysmommy12, - whoa, who is she pregnant by??

I wouldn't message her... If your man can't put it to a stop then you gotta start thinking of wither or not your relationship is important to him. He isn't a child, they both know what they're doing. I'd tell him I don't like it and he needs to stop... If he doesn't I'd let the chicks man know what's going on..

@hueysmommy12, - I would too!! Get and GIVE her the 411

yourw not being crazy. id do it

I don't think it's immature, I'd do the same thing if I was in your position. You don't need the stress!

Id message her