I am so frustrated. supposed to be planning a a wedding to have in the next 3 weeks but now I don't even know if I want…
I am so frustrated. supposed to be planning a a wedding to have in the next 3 weeks but now I don't even know if I want to get married. he lost his job. wasn't his fault not mad about that. but my grandfather helped him make out a resume to help with finding a new job and asked him to come over and do a little yard work for him. he said he would. I couldn't get him out of bed to go over there. and when he finally got up on his own he went straight to the computer and got on rune scape. I told him he needed to go over there since he said he would. he basically ignored me till he knew it was too late since his friend is supposed to be picking him up in an hour to hang out and he won't be back till tomorrow. now he doesn't have time. makes me want to smash the computer (which is mine anyway) and smash his Xboxes (yes he has two) just so he will maybe pay some fucking attention to me. but all that will do is make him mad and he will leave me. after he leaves I may just tell him not to come back for a while. fuck these god damn emostions.
Ariel·
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Don't feel pressured to get married now just because you two are having a baby. You can always get married later when you feel more confident and positive.
Sarah·
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that was the original plan. we changed it cause being married could help us get a safer car come tax season next year. we were just gonna go to the court house and so a quick Thing till i told my grandmother and she took over. I'm bout to just tell her to but out of it. seems like everyone is pissing me off tksay
Ariel·
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That's what my husband and I did so I could be on his insurance, just the court marriage only the two of us. We are going to plan an actual ceremony for friends and family well after the baby is born. When we told our parents they were upset at first that we didn't invite them, but it was so boring we waited in line for 2 hours there were so many couples and families. @maxx
Sarah·
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we have decided to do just the court thing now. and we will include my dad cause we trust him. but we aren't telling anyone else till we set a date.
Chelsie·
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Only get married if you really plan on staying that way.... I made that mistake a few years ago, he was abusive in every way I finally got away from him and now I'm living through it. It's so cheap and easy to just go to the courthouse and get a marriage license but if divorce ever has to happen its $400-$500...SMH 😖