i seriously need to vent. after a tad over 3 years together and 2 years and 4 months of marriage my husband confessed something to me last nigjt in front of two of my best gfs as well. he enjoys dressing like a woman and wants to down the road under go surgery to become one. he confessed this has been his feelings since before he met me. i feel i guess betrayed; lied to; hurt and anger and i dont know what to say to this. i couldnt look at him in my clothes and my makeup. we have two little boys together. what will they think when they see daddy dressed like Mommy? im so confused
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idk what im comsidering. im hearing when you take vows its for better or worse and if you leave it wasnt real to begin with. but then its like what about the lies ive lived not knowing this all this time? like poor him and no consideration of me and his sons. already having a tough time dealing with his baby mama and not being able to see my step daughter and now this. idk
yeah thats what i was thinking last night. im heart broken to say the least
Follow your heart and think of your children! That's a hard pill to swallow! My personal opinion, I feel if your hear desires something strongly such as wanting to be transgender you shouldn't start a family with a person without them knowing. If you're considering being with him do counseling and keep your babies in mind.
My God !! I'm praying for you . Man that's deep . I'd rather hear he cheated on me than that . Good luck . Those boys need you .
@mboroff91, its a hard thing to admit. Maybe he was hoping he could get over this desire. Maybe working up the courage to say it. But atleast he didnt wait until he was 50 like Caitlin Jenner. There is still time to live your lives how you want.
its not just the situation its the fact hes lied to me the last 3 years that hits the hardest
Hey mama... Honestly, if you love this man and he sincerely loves you back, why let him go? He was scared to admit his secret, but think of this as a gateway in your relationship. Your children will love their daddy regardless of who he chooses to be. Just tell them that he is still their daddy, he is just special, just like everyone else. We are all made in our own unique way... God makes no mistakes❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's amazing that he admitted it to you. Remember that. He trusts you and loves you enough to have told you. Take some time. It's hard feeling like you've been betrayed. I hope you end up doing whatever makes you happy in the end.