I hate to talk about my sex life openly but i need advice constantly now that I'm a new mommy and I'm dealing with a relationship that's only been going for a month and a half....so here's the deal seems like every time me and my love get close enough to even cuddle my daughter who's in the bassinet next to my bed seems to like to make some kind of sound that we make jokes as to say that she's trying to tell us that we're not allowed to touch so we've been talking about what the plan will be once I can finish healing from my c-section and of course getting birth control and eventually getting the ok from the doctors to be able to start having sex or something along the lines my question is whether or not once we can get some alone time is it ok to just jump right back into the same old same or do I have to take it slow like I'm a virgin loosing my vcard all over again and just how slow are we talking if i do