Kayla Williams
amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

Question to all preggie women okay so my friends baby father/boyfriend is in jail until September and she has been struggling and I have been giving her 100 dollars a month since he's been locked up and I've been feeding her kids baby sitting for free and taking them out to eat and every month I feel like she's not satisfied she's ether crying her eyes out about bills or stress o take her to get her nails and feet

Done and eye brows now she asked me

To Get her hair braided with me for My baby shower and to get her nails and feet done but keeps posting how she don't have no friends and no ones there for her I'm really debating like why should I pamper her for my baby shower and why do I keep doing nice things for people who seemingly take advantage

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mommy2three_boys
Laqueesha 😋😘·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

you go hunny.. 😊😄

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

Thank you guys so much I will tell her just that @azmommy85 @threekings101415 @bgabby

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azmommy85
🎀 Alicia 🎀·В ожидании первенца

You seem like an amazing friend and woman. If she isn't appreciative if what you do for her then I would stop doing things for her. When the time comes for you to get your hair done etc just explain to her that you can't afford to get her done. It's your day and you have money to save for your baby that's on the way. If she's a true friend she would understand and not get upset or try taking advantage of you.

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mommy2three_boys
Laqueesha 😋😘·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

you not obligated to get her hair done. since you not a real friend, then tell her to find a real friend that will get her hair done.. !!! she don't need t take advantage of you. you to good and kind to her ass for her to use you..🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅

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kirstennmayo
Kirsten·Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (33 нед.)

Talk to her and let her know how you feel first please! Maybe your friendship can be worked out and if she's really your friend she will understand :)

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gabbybritt
Brittany Gabrielle·В ожидании первенца

Uh, let her figure it out on her own. You've done enough. I hope all the good you've been giving out comes back to you soon. 😊

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cp
cyniece·Мама четверых детей, беременна

some times the best friends are the ones you don't see on a daily basis

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

I will try but now I feel like I absolutely have no friends besides the world of preggie @cp

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

Good point @threekings101415 she did keep complaining about how she can't do it without her baby daddy she always makes it seem like she's looking out for me and you know what else she I feel now she purposely tells me about her problems just cause she know imma help her out you right she does wanna be taken care of but what do I do now I told her she could get her hair and nails done with me for my baby shower

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cp
cyniece·Мама четверых детей, беременна

yes that's exactly what she's doing taking advantage or shall I say using you so please stop you have your own house hold to take care of

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lizamadeo21
Elizabeth·Мама сына (3 года)

I am just like u but if I was spending all that money to help here and she post she got no friends she got to go

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mommy2three_boys
Laqueesha 😋😘·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Don't let her take advantage of you. she is not a good friend .. You don't deserve that you to good for her. !!! dam that. !!! You can't help the world. she don't wanna be helped she wanna be tooken care of. Bye Felicia👋👋👋

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

I wish I could but I just feel to nice and obligated to help others @lizamadeo21

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

Thank you @mrsmoore I just wish I had good friends

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lizamadeo21
Elizabeth·Мама сына (3 года)

That's when I tell her to kiss my ass

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

Wow I love preggie all yall speak so much truth and wow I still didn't realize I was getting taken advantage of wow what is wrong with me @theredheadchic @threekings101415 @babybermea

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ak16
ak16·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

No friend should be like that those you have your own family to think about as well, as for the kids that's great what you're doing but her no that needs to spot and you need to think would she do the same for you if you were in her shoes? If she has $15 rent I honestly don't see why she can't go food stamps and any other help she needs, she just needs to get some resource help and worry about her bills not her appearance

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mrsmoore
Sarah krashin·Мама троих детей

you are a very good friend

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amiyahsmommy
Kayla Williams·В ожидании первенца

I give her 100 dollars a month she lives in subsidized housing which means rent is only 15 dollars for her and she had wic she just swear she need help without her baby daddy and you right she's actually a lot older than me I just wish she would tell me that I've done enough I wish someone would tell me I've done enough or save my money cause I feel like I'm way too nice not even realizing I could be taken advantage of @ak16

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theredheadchic
theredheadchic·В ожидании первенца

It's really not your responsibility to "pamper" her..I can see helping your friend out by feeding her but nails? Feet? Braids? Tuh! That's laughable! Then she has the nerve to be ungrateful?! She clearly sees that's your gna do whatever for her & she's taking full advantage of that! Sorry, but she's no friend.

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babybermea
Sunny 💋·В ожидании первенца

@amiyahsmommy, your a really sweet friend to do all those nice things for her getting her hair and nails done are just luxuries and I wouldn't do it if she really is struggling so much she could use that money towards other things or encourage you to get pampered for your big day . It would be different if it was her baby shower but your so nice and thoughtful and she isn't even thanking you she's complaining online that's mean :(

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mommy2three_boys
Laqueesha 😋😘·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

dam that. I wouldn't do shit else for her. her kids, I would feed them if they was hungry but that's about all. seem as she taking you advantage. saying she don't have no friends blah blah blah. you seem like a real ass friend to me. ! fuck that. and get her hair done for you baby shower ? the hell kind of shit is that. ? anyways, I would fall back. seem as she is ungrateful , she's not satisfied. ! you don't have to do that, you do it through the kindness of your heart. tell her to go apply for food stamps.. 😊 its ways to help her since she "quote on quote" has no friends.

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ak16
ak16·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

You need your money for your family too, can she not try resources such as wic or food stamps or cash help, I don't think it's right for her to stress about things then ask to be pampered you or she could spend that money on bills

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