I didn't find out what I was having! I know if I knew I would feel bad for knowing and now I don't know I'm curious. I don't even have an inkling what I think it might be! keep a secret this time and next time find out 😇 x

See I'm not massively bothered about buying colour coded things! My partner has a massive family and have said if we don't find out they will buy colour coded when the baby is born! I always thought I would want to know, but I actually really don't! Everyone else I know that's had babies, especially in the family, have all found out and I just want to be different I suppose! X

money is tight for me at the moment we have just bought our first house so think we need too find out but won't want money too make my mind up for me :(

I've always said to myself that if I ever had a baby I would defiantly find out the sex, and my mind didn't change when it came to deciding. me and my boyfriend both had to no, we just couldn't wait. I feel that in a way knowing the sex has made me feel closer to my baby. I'm 33weeks today and don't regret finding out at all, I'm happy I did

I'm currently 37 weeks and haven't found out the sex! It's annoying at first when buying things because it's all gender neutral! But now that I'm so close to birth it's was so worth the wait! I'm so excited to see what we have! It's the only real surprise in life!xx

@chesscarosex, I am in 3rd trimester and still didn't buy anything.... seems early... but looks like others buying even earlier)

I didn't want to know the first time but we decided to find out because money was tight at the time and I wanted to buy appropriate stuff. Not buy neutral then ending up buying more stuff when baby was born. Plus. when it came to it, we were far too impatient to know. This time we're going to find out becsuse I hate all boys names and I don't want to spend time discussing them and getting upset about it if I don't need to x

oo anoo I can't wait to start buying stuff by I'm waiting until my second trimester just in case fingers crossed everything will be fine :-) x

@emmy_lou, you both have some time to change your point of view on this situation x don't worry now about it) you both right and both ways are right) lots of people prefer to keep it a surprise, what is very exciting... from another side when you know you can get prepared properly (clothes, toys, room decoration) x

@oweatherby, I know?l, but I feel kinda guilty because it's his baby too and I know he really wants to know!! @chesscarosex I'm 25 and partner is 27! It's our first baby so I want to keep it a surprise! Might use the old emotional hormones to my advantage and cry u too I get what I want haha!! x

yep same here how old are you and your partner I'm 18 and my partner is 26 and we have just bought our own house so think we might have to fins out for money reasons x

hun, you are mum and I am sure if you prefer to not know babys gender, you have all rights to do as you want )
never been in this situation, with first one we could see till 28 weeks, with second we agreed we want to know)
I can understand your partner, but he has understand your motivation too and give up))) hope you will sort it out x