??? My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
Carolyn·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@missvargas, that's what a friend of mine suggested about it affecting him diff. It just frustrates me to hear he did certain things with his ex and their preg and he doesn't seem to care about ours.
Carolyn·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
Thank you @katemeier and @uhmandaxconrad92. We were going through a big rough patch before baby and kinda continued. I've mentioned lil things here and there like how he's always saying he gave into having a second kid cuz I wanted it. He always said he only wanted one and his ex got knocked up on purpose. I tell him things like that make me feel like I'm the only one who wants her and all he can say is I don't mean it like that. I never thought I'd have to deal with this from him.
Carolyn·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@expecting2015, that's where I'm at. it aggravates me to even talk to certain people about the preg when he doesn't seem like it matters
missvargas·
@cimarie1314, I don't think you're overreacting and your feelings are valid .but guys react differently to pregnancy than women do I'm sure he'll get more excited once the baby actually gets here.my husband had no interest in my baby showers ,setting up the nursery I still made him help me but he did it with a stink face..lol....this time around I've been doing most of it on my own it's been nine years since we had our last one .but it doesn't bother me that much because I know once baby gets here he'll love him the same.and I think by not pushing things on him he actually showing a little bit more of an interest...good luck
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Girl it breaks my heart that you feel that way... Have you expressed your feelings to him?
missing87user·
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I'm sorry honey....I wish me and PJ could hug you
Carolyn·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@uhmandaxconrad92, that's what I was thinking just cut him out of it. just sucks because it's really making my view on him and my stepdaughter change. I'm trying so hard to just be happy and enjoy this but I just feel more alone than anything
RoRo 💖💜·
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I haven't enjoyed my pregnancy at all , I love my baby girl but it's been rough. I've excluded people and started doing things myself like doctor appointments , shopping
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I say exclude him and do it yourself...the if he cares he should realize and bring it up to you. It will be his loss. Don't let him and his actions drag down your happiness. Enjoy your pregnancy and find a bestie to share the moments and ideas with instead....it might even make him jealous 😘