I want to vent on something that happened today.. I was born and raised a baptist. I know really…
I want to vent on something that happened today.. I was born and raised a baptist. I know really good Christians. i am one. so not trying to put them down.
but i sat by this lady I've known for a long time. she asked me what I was doing these days. i told her. she knew I was pregnant. I told her I was living with my bf and that we are planning to get married after my older sister. she asked me where I met my bf, I said we were introduced through a friend, but I really met him at a bar.
she said "don't wait, u need to get right with the Lord. you can do 2 things to do that. either marry him before the baby comes or leave him." I told her nicely I don't want to talk about it. she went on to say "its a since, its wrong, thats adultery" (its fornication* and I like fornicating bitch)
"marriage is to protect the mother and the baby"... made no sense?
she knows my families past I told her "no it doesnt, it didn't protect MY family. my dad went and slept around with ANOTHER married woman with children". I should have asked her where her husband was and asked her if marriage protected her family.. but I told her I am done talking about this and left .
**don't judge my boyfriend. he is a really good guy that I met in a bar. lol. he buys me chocolates and flowers when last week's flowers died. he pays all bills, he buys me everything I could need. I never go hungry. he is 16 years older but he is very stable . he gives me daily massages. he is amazing and my very best friend
Courtney·
my family is the same I'm terrified to tell the rest of my family
Kelly·
Многодетная мама (11 детей), беременна
It's none of anyone's business how you choose to live your life, as long as you are happy then screw everyone else lol
missing115user·
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Its not her job to judge you and she should know that. My boyfriends family says the same kind of things and it makes me mad. They claim to be good Christian people yet they sit back and judge others nonstop. When I found out I was pregnant they even went as far as to call our baby a sin and a mistake and tried to make us get married in a court house. Don't listen to her or anyone. Do things the way you want to do them because its your life and your choices
momma_beffers·
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@amber.s95, his mom tried to persuade me to marry right away...
momma_beffers·
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@natesgirl, ya I know! made me so mad! she can shove her "perfect" little life down each one of her perfectly formed sons faces
missing115user·
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Marriage is something that needs to be done on your own time when you're ready. it isnt something that should be forced. A marriage certificate won't change the way you love or care for your child.
Courtney·
never Mary right away my parents did that and I've never had a relationship with my biological father because they just weren't right for each other
Kelly·
Многодетная мама (11 детей), беременна
Lmfao right, I can't stand someone like that. It's not very "Christian" of her to judge the way you choose to live!! @momma_beffers
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
My first marriage was like that . My ex husband's family insisted we get married when I got pregnant with my daughter . We were both young . Needless to say our marriage didn't last but 3yrs . So now here I am with another baby coming by my boyfriend & we are waiting to get married . I don't want to be pregnant walking down the aisle . But because of the judgmental attitudes , hardly no one knows I'm pregnant .
baby2_2016·
Мама дочки-младенца
@momma_beffers, my parents will be celebrating their 24th anniversary on the 27th of this month.... let me tell u... they met in a bar. my mom was the bar tender and my dad was a regular. they got pregnant, then married, and now here we are. and actually their first two kids names are Bergundi and Brandi. so tell that lady where to shove it.
momma_beffers·
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@natesgirl, ya that's a sin according to what she believes in lol.
@cenm we have agreed to make it work no matter what happens because we both know what it's like with separated parents. was he a dead beat and left? the status of their relationship does not effect the relationship of u and your father. unless he was a drunk who beat u guys ... then I am terribly sorry...
Courtney·
he molested me at 10 and he was a drunk so yeah
momma_beffers·
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@cenm, I am very sorry... marriage didn't do that.. he is just a horrible person and I am so sorry...
momma_beffers·
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@elenaj, I told her we met through a friend to spare myself the critism. what really happened was "he thought I was super hot and bought me drinks all night when I was only 19, I was shit faced and made out with him right then and there" I should have told her that!! and added more to the story like "I then laid on the pool table and let him have it!!" lol I met some good guys in bars.
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
Girl I met my boyfriend and my ex husband offline . Lol . Don't trip . 😁😩
momma_beffers·
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I've had countless fornication that I found online! lmao
momma_beffers·
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@elenaj,
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lol love it but i wish you did ask her where was her husband lol she just talking out her butt because nothing she said made any sense.