Saw this in Facebook ! No the original parent shouldn't get mad over it!! I say be grateful that the person who came into your child's life actually love them and cares for them and accepts them ! Now if they are doing wrong then yes be upset.
saying no other female will not parent your child is silly. honestly if the chick is kind hearted and genuinely cares about my son. I do not oppose at all. I grew up in a household where my step mother was the devil and it was hell fir me. but I didn't have a mom to defend me. mines died.
I have no control over who my ex dates. but I sure was he'll will beat the living shit out of ver if she dares touch my son. I don't mind discipline, but that's why I'd sit diwn with her and lay out the rules. . and warnings and consequences.. just as long as you verbalize what you expect things should be ok.
I mean that's different. I would want to meet the other person to. But if they are doing right by your child it's not point of being mad. If only they are in a serious relationship then that's when I am okay with it. If I see that they just break up and get back together no then don't bring it around my child.
I would be furious . If I haven't met her , I don't just want anybody around my child . That also makes it like you as a parent isn't doing your job if another person comes and starts taking care of your baby. And it could get confusing for the baby.