So I'm not allowed to be involved in planning my own baby shower because my mom wants it to be a…

So I'm not allowed to be involved in planning my own baby shower because my mom wants it to be a surprise. So I'm already irritated that I don't know when it is, because I won't be able to plan my outfit or anything. Well now, she goes and loses the entire guest list and addresses. And on top of it she's inviting people that I don't even know!!!! I could just scream!!!!