🚨🚨 went to my Dr appointment today, Dr doesnt believe in checking for dialation! I really want to…

If you really want to know you can check yourself or go into L&D

I heard that checking yourself is dangerous so I am scared lol @athenas_mommy

found this online

I never heard that but it could be lol I wasn't ever brave enough to do it only cause I couldn't reach over my belly lmao

I've tried and I can't reach the back at times , easiest for me to check is in the shower squatting

Good luck!

haha thats my thing! and I dont want to mess anything up haha im a chicken! @athenas_mommy

Maybe I will try it @ftm-jess ! im just a big chicken haha

thank you for the Information! @ftm-jess

It's not painful , use lube if you aren't doing it in the shower. make sure your hands are clean. and your nails aren't long so you won't scratch yourself. I don't put my whole hand in , just index and middle finger. but like I said there are times I can't reach to the end and times I feel like I could be 1cm...I'm not a doctor so I have no clue what I'm really feeling for,lol. I'm getting checked by my doctor on friday , we'll see if I was right or not

@amrafferty, you're welcome :-)

okay maybe I will try it tonight! yeah thats me too idk what to really look for either lol @ftm-jess

ive read midwives recommend for you to check yourself because you can feel if it's painful/uncomfortable , the doctor doesn't really "care" about that lol. anyways good luck !

that makes sense! thank you!! @ftm-jess