I have to admit :) I didn't really feel much towards my baby. But since having the scan earlier and…
I have to admit :) I didn't really feel much towards my baby. But since having the scan earlier and seeing it wriggle about and kick it's legs and move its arms :) I've fallen in love :) There's an actual baby growing inside of me :) Xxx
Emily Constable·
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I was the same especially since it was unplanned. even after the scans I didn't feel a connection, I think I only started to feel something after I felt and saw her move and kick. since then I've had a connection
Bethany·
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Awe, mine was unplanned too :):) Plus I didn't want to get excited from the start because I know miscarriage can happen at any time during the first 3 months. I just wanted to know that my baby was alright first :) But now I am super happy :) I don't quite have a connection yet...maybe like you I probably won't feel much of a connection until I feel him/her moving :) But I am still in love with my little bubz :) The scan was surreal! I couldn't believe how much it was moving :) The woman had a hard time getting measurements too :) My boyfriends eyes were just glued to the screen! @emily1997
Emily Constable·
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I remember the first time I saw my little girl on the screen. it was so weird, just seeing that there was really a little person growing inside me! I didn't know how to feel or anything I kinda felt a bit weird knowing there was something there. right now I don't think there's much of a connection, but I think that will come when I see and hold her for the ffirst time :)
Bethany·
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I kept questioning myself at the scan :) Like is that little person really inside me?!?! It just shocked me so much but in a good way :):) Love my little wriggle bum though xD :) Awe, the connection will come in time :) :) Remember if you ever feel like you aren't quite connecting with her when she is born, it could be a sign of Postnatal depression. Make sure you get help. There's lots of support. My mum got postnatal depression after having me. I'm always here if you need anyone to talk to after the birth, other than family and also during your pregnancy week :) :) @emily1997 x
Bethany·
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weeks*
Emily Constable·
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thanks and I'm sorta expecting pnd since I've suffered from depression in the past and it is passed down in my family so I'm eexpecting to get pnd. I think I'll b okay tho I know the signs of depression so as soon as I notice something ill say