I'm sorry for my angry posts. I've been really upset because I feel like my mom is just trying to…
I'm sorry for my angry posts. I've been really upset because I feel like my mom is just trying to pretend I'm not around.
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Hubby and I had planned our entire wedding out and it was supposed to be this coming September. But we found out I was pregnant and decided to push it back so I wasn't pregnant at our wedding.
Well we decided to plan it for May of 2016 instead. Told our families the new date and started re planning around the new time line. My mom went to several venues with me and helped me pick the perfect one. I thought we were all good.
Well my sister got engaged (which I'm very happy for, her fiance is a great guy) and my mom was helping them plan too. Well I was talking to my mom about my sisters wedding and my mom had booked my sisters wedding to be on a cruise ship... DURING THE WEEK OF MY WEDDING! like she just ignored my wedding and scheduled my sisters right over it. Mine was a Friday night and she booked my sisters to leave that Tuesday and not be back till the next Tuesday! I was upset about it and told her and all she said was oh well I didn't know your wedding was in may! I yelled and said that's bullshit yes you did you went to book it all with me! She just laughed at me and said oh I must have been so excited about your sister I forgot about you! Wtf? 😢😢😢 way to make me feel like shit mom. Then she said oh well you can just do it a different day in may. Umm no I can't we really wanted our wedding on Friday the 13 and there are NO OTHER Friday the 13th in 2016!
So the one day we really wanted we can't do. So hubby and I tried to find our own day again. We didn't want June because that's my birthday and no July because it's his birthday so we decided August. I told my mom thanks but I don't want your help planning anymore. And when she found out we want to do it in august she got mad saying it's rude because my sisters birthday is in august and how dare we try to steal my sisters month!
I'm at a loss guys. like I know my mom really prefers my sister over me but I try not to let it get to me but it's been really hard. I'm really hurt over this and my mom just keeps making me the bad guy
ak16·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Sorry if it makes you feel any better my sister tried to have her wedding on the day my husband and I started dating. And when my husband told her umm that was rude she just said oh it'll be fine, but I guarantee you if I was to do that to her it would be the end of the world. my dad has never really been a dad to me and he has always been one to my sister so I get that feeling only I've dealt with it all my life and it still hurts
missing118user·
Мама сына-младенца
sometimes u just have to ignore the world and.do whatever u want. regardless of how Anyone feels.
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
It just hurts. my parents act like I'm being dramatic for being upset they forgot my wedding. sometimes family is shitty @ak16
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
Yeah we're planning it all on our own now we decided and if they don't make it they don't make it. It just hurts to find out how little you mean to some people @mssjudyk
missing118user·
Мама сына-младенца
I also experienced the whole I prefer one sibling over the other. but I was too sad about my mother's death to care.
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
awww I'm so sorry this is happening to you. just remember, you can't make everyone happy
Trysten Cantrell·
I would still have my wedding on the day that I wanted. Especially if it was already planned. But my husband and I don't care about anyone else or their opinions. So we didn't care who did or didn't show up at our wedding. My mom and brother didn't attend my wedding because my mom always finds an excuse. My mom is very unreliable. But yeah, I say if you and your husband don't really care who's there, then do it on the day you want. And if your sister gets mad that you don't go to her wedding because you are marrying the love of your life, then screw her, just because your mom helped her plan it for that week, your sister still (I'm assuming) knows what day you wanted to have your wedding, so she should be considerate and switch her date if you had yours first. Your mom's the one who should feel like shit.
missing118user·
Мама сына-младенца
I know what ya mean there.... it happens a lot with my cousins. .. they play favorites with each other and completely leave me out of everything. .. it makes me a little mad sometimes... but I've learned to just ignore... I have em as friends on Facebook but I unfollowed them... I see them liking and commenting and concerned about each other but completely ignore me...
Shawna Santistevan·
To be honest your mom seems real mean and I would just do it with or without them. If they wanna get all butt hurt its their own fault. You were engaged first and was planning first it would have been nice of them to ask you about your wedding first.