that's such bullshit. I tried and tried. Bradley refused. so I pumped for a while. put it's time consuming and I went back tow work so I stopped. would she rather her starve? she is being fed that's what matters . ugh people @agrace2015

My fiances mom judges me hard core since I "gave up" breast feeding. she thinks since she was perfect at breastfeeding all 6 of her kids that I'm a terrible person for not breastfeeding. it sucks

when I go out in public I feel like people are judging me when I have to make him a bottle. I wonder if they think why am I not breastfeeding lol I always think you don't know my story. I feel like I shouldn't have to feel that way. nor should breastfeeding moms should be judged. @alicia91 @eskawho

I couldn't agree more...I tried to breastfeed but my supply wasnt there and when ever I wasn't feeding I was pumping and still my supply went down...I had the hardest time stopping but formula was best...I didn't even want to tell some people because I felt like I was being judged and I feel like every time someone asks they judge and makes me feel awful...but then I look at my beautiful and healthy 4 month old and she is just thriving so that is what matters. people suck sometimes lol.

@blessedmommy yes Im right there with you, its starting to piss me off too! Like be proud omg be very proud of what you did yes! But dont be a bitch about it 😕 exactly as long as your baby is healthy and being fed, where he gets is shouldnt matter! Its pissing me off a lot too!

Its starting to piss me off. you can be proud. it's a great thing. but I'm no less than you . it shouldn't even matter. as long as you're not starving your baby. @alicia91

omg I completely agree with this!! I posted something yesterday cause I too have been reading some stuff! I feel like they really do think of you being less of a mother if you dont breastfeed! I tried sooo hard with my first until my nipples cracked and bled. Some moms are okay but to me it just seemed like way too much hassle and formula is just as good!!

I feel like we have a great connection. people are ridiculous @gabrielle_d

Lol that's dumb. I mean i don't care what other people do I just don't think it's for me. Everyone told me I wasn't going to have a close connection with my baby because im not. I just laughed in their face because personally where she gets her food from won't change anything. @blessedmommy

stand

I read on fb that it's lazy and selfish for not trying. I tried. but that sounds so damn stupid to me. my sister didn't try. I can't at and people lol @gabrielle_d

I'm a ftm and I'm not breastfeeding lol I get crap all the time about it but I really don't care 👋🏽

oh no I'm not saying not be proud. it's a great thing. be proud! lol I've just read quite a few things recently where they think moms that formula feed are selfish. and other things that are putting down moms that formula fed. I tried and tried but Bradley refused. and wouldn't eat. so I had to feed my child. it depresses me that I couldn't. so sometimes I May get bitter but I would never down another mom for parenting different than me. so I don't understand why others do it 😒 as long as they're getting fed and is healthy. @ginag918

@eneoster I would have got annoyed so fast lol

I'm a first time full time breastfeeding mom and I don't know about other moms but I am so excited and proud to breastfeed so I post stuff about my journey but I try to always add a disclaimer that there's no disrespect intended for those who choose not to or simply can not. I am just trying to celebrate it and do my part to bring awareness and normalize it because in my culture (blacks) it is not standard because it is not pushed by the doctors or nurses in my community it is made to seem disgusting by our peers. So I may get on my bandwagon and toot my horn from time to time and some moms who don't BF for whatever reason will still take offense even with me adding the disclaimer lol so to each his or her own I say. You can't brag about anything these days without someone taking offense so live your life long as you have a happy and healthy baby like u said. I'm just happy I can save a buck because I don't qualify for any WIC or Food Stamps and that milk is expensive!!!! 😁😩😂

Right!!!!

idk why some breastfeeding moms think they're better than anyone else !! I breastfeed but I don't care to put anyone down for not doing it. I went to a breastfeeding class (more like a group) there were girls with their grown babies there but omg they were so stuck up bragging about their breast milk. I didn't wanna go back !

I bet! I pumped for a while it was taking up so much of my time. I couldn't imagine having to pump at work and having enough milk haha @temeshawalker

Yessss Girl Breastfeeding is hard especially if your a working mom