my boyfriend was acting up yesterday. okay we went to pizza hut, he wanted wings but hot bbq and I…

my boyfriend was acting up yesterday. okay we went to pizza hut, he wanted wings but hot bbq and I told him to get the garlic Parmesan in case they girls wanted to try and he'd like no he doesn't want anything. so I ordered the dinner box and the chocolate chip cookie thing. he only got a slice. I'm like why don't you eat??? because I didn't get wings. I'm like you fucking serious??? this made my oldest with autism not eat (but her I can force). I hate that he's quiet and makes everything so uncomfortable. I wanna talk to him but idk how I have tried multiple times!!! he won't listen, he doesn't want me to get a job either. I get so frustrated trying to get a reason out of him!!!!