I do try stand my ground and fight for what's right but it goes on deaf ears. He will try make me happy for a bit then few weeks down line we are in this position again. I've lost all trust and respect for him. I'm going out for lunch with him and giving him an ultimatum.... I know he won't chose which will make the decision easy for me.... locks changed and flags out xxx

@sazockaz14, darling, you are gorgeous lady and very nice person. why you allow that guy to treat you like that???????? if you love yourself and your baby you have to change it... there is two options only, or he sees a doctor to sort his problem out or he has to go!!!!! coulf you imagine all this will happen when baby born????? I can, because I have been in this situation and when my son was born, my ex-husband became even worse.... he didn't come home for few days... I had very bad depression, lost a milk and wax dreaming to leave him...unfortunately I wasn't stirong iand clever enough.. I left only when son was 3 year old and really regret I didn't leave earlier!!! now my boy is 8, I have lovely family and expecting second child) I believe that you will be happy.. Just looks like not with that man... of course he has a chance to change situation... And I am sure you love him, because otherwise you would not stay with him after all this.... Just think about yourself and your baby before.... x

Ughhh men! Are such inconsiderate beeps sometimes,dont let it get to you stress isnt good for you or the baby @sazockaz14 xx