@mssjudyk, I agree with you...it is hard my husband is a pipe fitter and works 10 hour days so I try to do everything but he does hold him so I can make dinner which in my opinion he should want to hold his son.
It's hard on both our ends... they work all day and just want to come home and relax... not really understanding we really can't do much since a baby requires 24/7 attention... so we hope for some time of help when they get home... I try not to mind so much since I'm not working and understand all the stress that comes with being the only provider..