He looked me dead in my face and said "you the one who wanted a baby and I sucked it up." What am I…

He looked me dead in my face and said "you the one who wanted a baby and I sucked it up." What am I suppose to say to that. I didn't get pregnant on purpose the whole three years we were dating I was not on bc. I didn't find out I was pregnant until we decided to part ways and he moved back out of state. I want my family..but not the bs that is coming along with it.