Did anyone feel disappointed when they found out the gender of their baby? I really want a girl and my boyfriend wants a boy. I had strong feelings the first couple weeks that it was a boy but I refer to the baby as a she all the time now. He says I won't love the baby as much if it's a boy. Which is not true, I've just always wanted a girl. :/ I'll love my baby no matter what. I've already started shopping. I just know I'll feel a little sad when I find out the sex. :/
the more you stress the more strain you put on your body, so as hard as it is, just try and stay positive. I hope she's OK as all, but you can't take on someone else's experiences mama, just be happy. Cramping can be normal, it's bleeding that should raise the red flag. I'm on baby #4, but my 5th pregnancy so I've experienced it all. Try and stay calm❤
It's a scary thing. Someone just posted they lost their baby and that scares the crap outta me. I hope she is ohkay, but things like that make the days harder. Especially since I've been cramping for two days. Like period cramps @babycasey
I wouldn't stress too much, I've also miscarried and I know the fear but I promise once it'll pass. With my first I didn't have much to do with him in the hospital, I suffered post partum really bad, but it only lasted 2 weeks. After that, he was my other half. and still to this day, at 10yrs old, he's a mommy's boy ❤
@csteele, that would be something I would do though! 😂😂😂😂
I'm so scared I won't feel the same with a boy than I would with a girl. I'm excited to find out, but I'm also nervous that the baby will have something wrong with him or her. I guess since I miscarried in March I feel like something is wrong with the baby. I'm just I don't know. @babycasey
I cried with my first because I wanted a girl but got a boy lol everyone was trying to tell me it's OK and I wasn't hearing it... but then I warmed up to him being the protector of future babes ❤ now I wouldn't trade him for the world! it'll be OK honey! and the love is still the same❤❤❤
I knew my baby was a boy deep down, I think I wanted a girl so bad, I was a bit disappointed when they told me it was a boy, honestly I wouldn't have it any other way
I'm just ready to know what I'm having lol and if the baby is healthy or not @csteele
My boyfriend doesn't want anymore kids. He tells me no. :/ @boymama
This will be my 3rd boy.. I have a 11 year old girl... but I'm optimist too.. I think once I have the baby it will just magically be a girl.. lol.... 😃 a girl can dream right lmbo
I am happy we have three beautiful nieces to spoil, and if you end up having a boy this time you might have a girl next if you want more babies😁 I'm always the optimist haha
yes I wanted a girl but it's a boy but I'm so excited now that he's a boy!
I'm honestly that way now! I know my boyfriend will be thrilled because he wants a boy but me not so much. I'll be glad to know my baby is doing well and has no abnormalities, hopefully that's true, but I'll be happy. I just want a girl. Funny while typing I wanted a girl i put boy instead. Whoops. I'll find out in two weeks or so! @csteele
I was sad.. I wanted a girl, but we're having a boy.. I cried the whole day.. my appt. was at 10am. I was fine after a day or so. I was just happy he was doing well inside. but I still get mad when I go shop.. they have TONS of cute girl clothes out.. I usually just push the little girls clothes on the floor because I'm still bitter about it. lol @thencomesbabyj
Haha I'm dying! That's great! But id love a little girl to dress up! @boymama
I'll be 13 weeks on Wednesday, but now I don't know what I feel. I felt that way at first but I've been calling the baby a she not meaning too. Maybe because I want one so bad. Lol @iloveyou
Can't say we didn't try for the girl... But I'm completely happy with three little guys. Guess I will save some money on all the makeup and dresses and shoes hahaha😂
when I was around 13 weeks I had a gut feeling that I was having a boy but I wanted a girl so badly but when I had my 20 week ultrasound I was kind of upset that it was confirmed I was having a boy. but I couldn't imagine not having my little boy 💜
Yeah i was hoping to have a girl this time because i already have a son, i had even already picked a name and bought a little girl outfit and to be honest I'm still kinda hoping that whenever i have the baby they tell me its a girl not a boy like you expected. 😁I have only had one ultrasound during my whole pregnancy and it was performed by trainees and they werent so sure of the gender so who knows maybe my boy isnt actually a boy but if it is i would love him just as much. ☺️
@lovebuggg2016, at the end of the day it is what it is and it might take some adjusting but u will love it
I was sure we were gonna have a girl. But it was a boy. I even cried for a few mins when I found out😂 such an idiot. It's perfect to have a son! Can't imagine my life without him.
That's what I'm scared of too. I find out in about two weeks from Wednesday so. @thencomesbabyj
I know I'll love him or her unconditionally. I just really want a girl. I get my blood drawn on Wednesday to test for abnormalities and I'll find out the sex of the baby within 7-10 days after thats. Lately I've been more worried about making sure everything is ohkay but I was just thinking about it. @mommyof2angelboys
I'm afraid of that! I have a daughter and I want another one. I feel like I'm having a boy and I'm ok with it but I know my reaction will vary at my reveal party!
I was really sad. with both pregnancies but I love them soooooo much
Did anyone else feel disappointed when they found out the gender of their baby and it wasn't what they were hoping for? I'll love my baby either way, but I really wanted a girl this time.
I feel horrible because i dont want to be pregnant. I mean i was excited and everything when i found out. Mlre so shocked. But as time is going on, i just dont want to be pregnant. Is that an ok thing to say? Although i already love this little girl and thats mostly why i feel bad for feeling that way. Not sure if something is wrong with me or its just im over it now because i feel like this pregnancy is dragging on
I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Motherhood ripped from me again...
I went for my Anatomy Scan on Friday @ 20wks. I went in expecting to find out if my baby is a boy or girl, but came out feeling like I'm going to die.
I am. I try not to worry too much. It's only when I start getting upset that I worry a lot. Or when I'm thinking about my cramps that I worry. @babycasey