This isn't a bashing post just a simple observation/question... I'm seeing ALOT of moms talking…

Mine is for health... I've had 2 prior so forced to have a 3rd. My first one was a emergency, 2nd was hbp and now this one. After the 3rd my doctor won't do anymore so I'm tying my tubes

this will be my 3rd c section and its for health reasons. If it wasn't for that I would have my babies au naturale! I just believe in the most natural forms of child birth for the sake of the child unless there's a medical reason that you can't.

with my first he was stuck and we realized my pelvic bones are to close together to give birth vaginally, i mean he had a massive bruise on his head because the doctors didnt realize it. So this time we are having a planned c-section because otherwise the same thing would happen, so mines medical reaso s

I'm having a c section because my first child was breach so I have to have c sections after that ..

@aliya0915, that sucks I'm so sorry to hear that. My SIL had a C section and my midwife was telling her that she doesn't have to have another one. Is three kids all you wanted?

@misslacy5, did you talk to a holistic doctor about having a natural birth? That's so unfortunate. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you have your babies though 💜😘

My first was vaginally and I had a full episiotomy and 4th degree rectal tearing and my son had to be pulled out with forceps because my son was too big for me. The doctor told me if my daughter was anywhere near the size of my son I could run the risk of tearing all the way open along the seam and could cause major complications. She is actually going to be BIGGER (already weighing 5lbs at 33 weeks) then my son and probably won't have enough room to turn so she would be breached and I would have to have a c-section anyway. I have a two year old son and so I decided to go ahead and schedule a c-section because I know I will recover in 2 weeks and be able to get back to a normal routine with two little ones.

Yes, I'm 35 and it's taking a toll on me. It just sucks that I'm not really left with a choice. Thanks love!

@xoxo512070, oh that happened to one of my friends. That's so sad. I'm glad you know now so you can prepare for it. That's good to know. Preparation is key!

@trezelle, thanks hun! I'm blessed to have them they really taught me a lot. but no I haven't talked to one. that's actually something I'm want and will look into. I want so badly to have my child naturally. they say for this one I have to have a another c section because my pregnancies are so close together. Youngest will be 1 on July 17 and my EDD is Dec 12

@trezelle my 1st was an emergency C-section due to baby distress he pooped. And I could've did a VBAC but I was diabetic and have high blood pressure so I didn't qualify. And I developed pre eclampsia at 25wks so therefore VBAC was out the question. And I went into liver failure at 29wks they had to deliver my baby girl via C -Section