Need to vent. My nephew is coming over for a few days. I've been up cleaning all day. My body is…
Need to vent.
My nephew is coming over for a few days. I've been up cleaning all day. My body is achy. How am I supposed to hide my pregnancy from him like his mother wants? How do you explain to an 11 year old why I throw up a lot without telling him the truth? Or why my husband lays on my belly and talks to it. I'm on pretty much every restriction besides full bed rest. If he wants to go to the beach I'm supposed to do what? I don't have cable, internet, a car or money. I've packed up all the games and stuff because we are moving soon. He's not allowed to play the games I have for Xbox. I'm just at a loss of what to so for him.
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
just curious as to why you would have to hide your pregnancy from a child? and with out the entertainment it will be hard to stay off your feet I'm sure he will want to get out and do something
Shannon·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Because I've lost so many and she's inconvenienced by having to answer questions. I have a pool here but that's not good enough for him. Have you ever tried to tell a spoiled child no? It's no fun :-/
Shannon·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@mrsmoore,
Jess·
That's tough. I would talk to the mother and ask her what her expectations are during his visit with your condition. Maybe talking it out will help and she can send him to you with some spending money and books and games of his own?
Shannon·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Good idea @jesslynn! Although when I told her I couldn't take him she said he needs to get away and I'll figure something out. My sister is just like a spoiled CHILD and she's older than me.
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
In your condition why is she putting her kid off on you? She's selfish n an 11 year old will understand you being pregnant and it's not hard to explain to a 11 year old that you lost a baby. My daughters 13 and she even knows about abortions I explain straight up because these days 11 year olds are having sex n making babies his mother sheltering him and he probably already knows more than she thinks. I wouldn't be on egg shells in my own hole if she has all these demands she needs to find another sitter or keep him home! U need to put your foot down ppl think when your pregnant you have no life so u can be their baby sitter for the next few months u better nip that in the bud!
Shannon·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@ginag918, because she has 3 and this one supposedly has Autism. What I see is she is a bully toward him and he acts out because of it. She is very selfish. She does shelter them. I would put my foot down but she will completely remove me from his life and lie about me if I don't do what she says. She is very manipulative. She's kind of a heartless bitch. I would love to take him though to get him away from her craziness. I mean how many 6 year olds do you know change diapers and make lunch for their siblings so their mother can play Candy Crush?
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
awe I'm sorry about that,and yes I have believe me my Kids are both spoiled at times and telling them no sometimes is hell
Shannon·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@mrsmoore, @ginag918 @jesslynn I told her "tell him or I'm going to. I'm very sore and don't need or want to deal with him when I tell him no" She did and I explained to him why it is a secret. He's excited but understands.
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@Bengsmom10, im glad you did she was making it harder than it had to be smh now you n him can enjoy each other without the stress 😊