My little one has decided that she will stay on a schedule and sleep like a champ during the day but…

My little one has decided that she will stay on a schedule and sleep like a champ during the day but at night well that's just another story. Trying to get the mrs to understand that yes her job is important but not more important that this baby. C section 9 days ago and I have so been over doing it but it's like if I don't then who will?? My fibromyalgia makes recovery harder and I'm in the middle of a flare. My poor mister is helping all he can but his anxiety gets the best of him. Tonight I had to make him time out take his anxiety meds and shut himself off to bed. Does anyone else feel like sometimes no one gets even tho they saw how hard it is and how difficult being a human walking feeding machine is??