so when I go into labor I'm only telling my dad and sister and maybe 2 friends that's it sense this…

so when I go into labor I'm only telling my dad and sister and maybe 2 friends that's it sense this is my bfs first kid I'm sure he will tell a few people ,I just hope they don't invite themselves I just want it to be me and him my dad can stop by he's a doctor and like to know all that stuff and check on me plus my kids will be with him but as for others I want to be left alone no visitors I'm doing this natural and want it to be a moment just me and my bf as he will become a parent for the first time and I think those moments before he offically becomes one are speacial,and after the baby is out I don't want visitors that day but my dad and kids not his whole family I feel sense my dad has the kids anyways it fair because that's the only way they can get there to see their brother i rather his family visit the day after as I will be tired I'm sure in pain and bleeding and just feeling gross and getting checked on by nurses that's kinda a private thing and just don't feel comfy have a ton of people being around when I feel like that... is that selfish?...they can come to the house and visit daddy has a lot to learn and we have a lot of bonding to do and I dont want a lot of people holding him,sanitize hands and no kissing him him heard to many bad stories with that, also don't want his picture posted on Facebook right away either