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kelsey
kelsey
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Would I be a bad mom for not breastfeeding? I was going to and now I think I don't want to because it takes so much time…

Would I be a bad mom for not breastfeeding? I was going to and now I think I don't want to because it takes so much time to nurse and my other kids would wreck my house

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jomommaclark

Josette

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It is a lot of work. you could set small goals such as for a week or two. it doesn't make you a bad mom to use formula although breast is best.

juliagail09

Henleis Mommy❤💜

Мама дочки-младенца

i dont breast feed...i only did for a few weeks before my milk dried up. but im a good mommy :) and formula is ok momma. you wouldnt be a bad mom.

kelseykempf22

kelsey

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Thanks so much I just have so much going on and don't really wanna pump and I wanna be able to work again to @jomommaclark @juliagail09

jomommaclark

Josette

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

you're welcome

mrsrobertson

mrsrobertson

Мама двоих (младенец)

@kelseykempf22 I pumped for 2 months while my daughter was in the NICU but once she came home I couldn't handle doing all that plus taking care of a 4yr old and working. It doesn't make you a bad mom you have to so what's best for u

kelseykempf22

kelsey

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@kingryansmom, thanks so much !! I was feeling guilty about it but I feel much better now 😊

blessedmommy

sarah

Мама сына-младенца

as long as your baby gets fed (: nothing wrong with formula at all

tonyajo92

tonyajo92

Мама дочки-младенца

There is nothing wrong with formula feeding!!! I exclusively breastfeed and I can say that I know firsthand it isn't easy, and having other kids to take care of while doing so seems like it would be a nightmare! I have a hard enough time just breastfeeding with my daughter and no kids. You do what you feel is best for your situation!

mrsrobertson

mrsrobertson

Мама двоих (младенец)

@kelseykempf22 never feel guilty your lil bub is getting feed that's all that matters

missing9user

missing9user

Мама троих детей

I don't want to breast feed either . I want the dad to be able to feed him . I just want to pump . 😕

kelseykempf22

kelsey

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Thanks lady's for all the great advice! You all helped so much ! @elenaj @kingryansmom @tonyajo92 @juliagail09

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?