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Nannying for a 13 month old while dealing with first trimester pregnancy is the worst! I've been a nanny for 4 years…

Nannying for a 13 month old while dealing with first trimester pregnancy is the worst! I've been a nanny for 4 years now, and I have never not loved my job until I got pregnant. Now, it's a different story. I still give 100% at work and trust me the little girl I'm watching would never know the difference, but that makes it even harder having to pretend all day long that I'm not feeling frustrated, annoyed, tired, etc takes even more out of me!! I don't know how I'm going to survive 6 and 1/2 more months of this!!

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Thank you @jonesmum! I'm glad I'm not the only one. I'm so hoping the second trimester is better, and I've already learned that when I get too frustrated I stick her in her crib for a while so we can both have a timeout! I'm sorry to hear about your mc, but it looks like you're well on your way to a healthy baby now!

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@katiek113, oh my god, it's the hardest thing there is!!! The pretending just makes it harder. you'll be fine soon enough, hopefully you'll get the second trimester "energy boost"! just mind your temper, it may not seem like a lot...but it can be so stressful!

I sadly had a miscarriage early on and didn't get pregnant again while nannying but the months I was were so hard!

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