is anyone else finding it to be a challenge to get their significant other's to help you? I find whenever I ask my husband for any help it puts him in a horrible mood. As a result I find myself doing everything that needs to be done around the house/caring for my kids/making meals alone. it would be nice to get a little help. the latest project I have begun is painting the nursery. he has been in the worst possible mood since I started, making me do it myself with my 19 month old on her crib watching.