me and bf were doing so good after our sons arrival he isn't even 2 weeks yet and we have gone back to the same shit and he doesn't even support me when im asking for his help with my post partum .... feeling so depressed
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to me. He didn't acknowledge me in the waiting room. During the ultrasound he was on his phone. It ended, and he gave me a hug and told me he was going to go see Star Wars right after my appointment. All he asked was "how do you know if the baby is going to be cute or not?" It's unbelievable. He doesn't care. It's ok if he doesn't care about me, but the baby. It hurts. So now I'm driving home and had to pull over because I'm crying my eyes out. This is so painful
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
madreof2·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@irisedith i would be wasting my time talking to his mom he does no wrong in her eyes which is so stupid I'm sorry if i know my son is in the wrong i will make sure Hrs ass is put in check
irisedith·
Мама дочки-младенца
in the beginning it was like that we mainly fought about giving the baby formula i wasn't getting enough milk and she was always hungry every hour and he fidnt let me do anything with her unless her doctor said it was okay so I finally blew up on him and told him that if he wanted to be up all night with her and do everything for her then do it and until the day you doo im going to do what i want because i dont need a doctor to tell me whats good or bad for my child i know whats best for my child i carried her and gave birth to her , he doesnt help with her or with the house , when i had depression i didnt show him signs that i had it i either cried in the shower or i talked to his mom so she can knock some sense into his dumbass head , im basically doing everything by myself
Gabriela Hurtado·
Мама сына-младенца
so did he, he said he couldn't deal with me. and honestly I didn't even know how to deal with myself. just keep yourself way from ppl think things thru and stay strong for your baby, that's all you can honestly do. We were also going thru alot of money problems too mainly because we just got a two bedroom apartment and it's our first big apartment and then our baby, it was so hard for the both of us. but I had to stay strong for my lil baby.
madreof2·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@devlinrorysmommie my bf Just basically told me screw my emotions we are going through so much right now financially and it's tough but dang really screw how i feel ? I've talked to my sister as well but she is going through her own problems so it's Like i can't put my issues on her as well
Gabriela Hurtado·
Мама сына-младенца
trust me I went thru the same situation, honestly the best way to get help is from someone who has gone thru it. My boyfriend had no clue on what to do and it just made me super mad and upset. so I talked to my older sister and it made me feel better :)