me and bf were doing so good after our sons arrival he isn't even 2 weeks yet and we have gone back to the same shit and he doesn't even support me when im asking for his help with my post partum .... feeling so depressed
in the beginning it was like that we mainly fought about giving the baby formula i wasn't getting enough milk and she was always hungry every hour and he fidnt let me do anything with her unless her doctor said it was okay so I finally blew up on him and told him that if he wanted to be up all night with her and do everything for her then do it and until the day you doo im going to do what i want because i dont need a doctor to tell me whats good or bad for my child i know whats best for my child i carried her and gave birth to her , he doesnt help with her or with the house , when i had depression i didnt show him signs that i had it i either cried in the shower or i talked to his mom so she can knock some sense into his dumbass head , im basically doing everything by myself
so did he, he said he couldn't deal with me. and honestly I didn't even know how to deal with myself. just keep yourself way from ppl think things thru and stay strong for your baby, that's all you can honestly do. We were also going thru alot of money problems too mainly because we just got a two bedroom apartment and it's our first big apartment and then our baby, it was so hard for the both of us. but I had to stay strong for my lil baby.
@devlinrorysmommie my bf Just basically told me screw my emotions we are going through so much right now financially and it's tough but dang really screw how i feel ? I've talked to my sister as well but she is going through her own problems so it's Like i can't put my issues on her as well
@irisedith i would be wasting my time talking to his mom he does no wrong in her eyes which is so stupid I'm sorry if i know my son is in the wrong i will make sure Hrs ass is put in check