Sometimes those are the times you have to push through. Communication is key. Ive been with my bf since 2010 and we hit a point like this 2 years ago. The problem with men is that they get complacent and comfortable and they feel like they don't how to show their love anymore. Which is a big mistake. Anyways, we stuck it out and I'm happy because things changed for the better. I did have to leave him for like a month so so he could see how serious I was. And he fought for what he wanted. I pray that things get better for you sooner than later. 😘