HELP!! where do I draw the line? I love my boyfriend and he's going to be a great father once he gets his head out of his ass. he doesn't have a job or a running vehicle, but has a opportunity to work with his brother, he wants me to move in but if he's not working then why should I move in just yet? I thought about taking custody of our baby, but I don't know if I have the heart to do it, he's to excited and like I said once he straightens up he's going to be amazing father to our baby, I just feel like it's us against everyone else. I'm not about to give up on us yet. anyone have any ideas?! or anything?!