Christina
calaboss
Christina·В ожидании первенца

the only way I'd keep my child away from his father is if he is abusive in some way. if he chose not to be with me that isn't a reason to keep him away from his child. give him the opportunity to be a father even if he isn't with you.

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calaboss
Christina·В ожидании первенца

exactly! I would never use my child(ren) as a pawn to hurt someone. the only reason to keep a child away from someone is safety. nothing more. @tierlarie

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tierlarie
Tierney·Мама сына-младенца

I completely agree. Unless he has somehow given me reason that he would harm the child, he has every right to see his child. It's just as much the father's child. My Fiancé and I have had this talk. My dad trued to get full custody to hurt my mom and in the end that only hurts the kids.

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calaboss
Christina·В ожидании первенца

@bhumes,

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calaboss
Christina·В ожидании первенца

exactly! I wouldn't want to pay child support for a kid a mother is selfishly keeping from me either! why would you expect a man to give you money to support a child he doesn't have rights to!

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bhumes

Then the girls that do keep the child away complain about how he's not there!!

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my child's father want legitimate rights?? should I be grown about it ?? or feel some type of way cause im not the type to do anything crazy .. like taking him away from his child

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babybump20 @sperdue22, can a father get full custody with legitimate rights ??
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Melissa ·Мама сына-младенца

abusive father

If a man is abusive to the mother of his child does that mean he will be abusive to the children? Can he be a good father and an abusive spouse?

mhbb29 I know it would take a lot for him to change. I never saw myself in a
mhbb29 I think he has anger management issues.
Even pushing is physical abuse. This has been going on longer than you realize. Do you have
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Would you take your child's father for child support if he hasn't bought anything for the baby yet and he begged for you to keep the baby ?? Or wait to see if he helps a Lil later?? Or let him be??

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bianca_rose Me personally I would give him time after she's born like you said
lovingmydaughter @skylarsmom7, never thought I'd be in my situation especially since he wanted this baby just as bad
quea Girl plz don't let some of these bitter baby mama's dictate what you do. Men are different,
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