Full disclosure...TMI but it's nothing you can't handle I promise 😎...
I started bleeding Thursday morning bright red, which prompted a trip to my OB who took me out of work. No real concern from her, though. She said my cervix was super soft and mushy, like the inside of your mouth/cheek. I started feeling very crampy all last night and some today. More like I'm about to get my period cramps. Not really on/off contractions. I also took 2000mg of evening primrose oil then inserted 2000mg vaginally like 10 minutes ago...now I'm bleeding bright red blood again 😒... baby has hiccups & some pressure but nothing out of the ordinary. What is all this bleeding business?!
@adamsmaaa, what are the laws? I have a feeling I'm going to go thru hell with all this custody BS. even though he doesn't claim her, once he finds out its his baby & he's responsible for child support he's probably going to demand some type of custody/visitation :(
Yeh we are working on the case with my attorneys! Let's see! I just spoke to my other attorney and he comforted me a little lol so I feel better. Let's see. Va laws are very strict!
omg NO!!!!! I'm so hurt for you. let him argue it but you need to present all evidence how terrible he is @adamsmaaa
Oh yikes. Yeh the last month is always the hardest. If you're already have bo issues, they will probably induce U by week 38. Everything is so hectic with me!! My abusive ex husband filed for joint custody! Im scared for my sons life because I know how he is. It's killing me inside. I just don't know what to do
@adamsmaaa, thank you for asking my love! how is everything? how's your baby boy!!!
@adamsmaaa, I'm so uncomfortable! I've been feeling really weird...like tired as hell and just off. I have a little bit of a high blood pressure so I'm going to the dr on Friday so they can monitor it....I think they're trying to see if they need to come up with an induction date
@lc, yeah that's what I figured, so u don't wanna make it worse you may just be thinning out on your own😏
@mrssabby, yes I didn't do it tonight...but I had just started doing it last night. it was my first night so Thursday's blood wasn't from EPO 😦
@lc, you may want to stop the EPO if you are bleeding bright red, and just trying walking up and down stairs or bouncing on a yoga ball
Yes I've thought about trying these things but then just figure my luck none of it will work
No it's not ! My oldest came at 37 weeks my water broke about 30 min after sex , my second didn't want to get out he came at 41.4 wks and my last to where induced at 37 weeks for medical issues , but I never tried any of these things beside walking and sex with my first 2 so I don't no much about it all
@krys, nope! there's nothing that can actually induce labor unless it's medical grade...all these old wives tales about EPO, castor oil, semen, etc can help with cervix softening and preparing your body for labor but never actually inducing it. Always ask your OB before you decide to start things like that, though. Every dr is different...I'm sure you're aware though, this isn't your first rodeo lol
Yes I want him out , im ready by all means im hoping 37 38 weeks he will get out of there lol
O cuz from what I've heard about it is it induces labour ! Just asking tho no judgment here was just curious as to why
@krys, will be 36 weeks tomorrow. Judging from your last post, me & you are on the same page 😆
@krys induce? EPO helps soften your cervix and prepares your vagina for delivery. Especially if you have had dehydration issues during pregnancy, it would lubricate your skin and help with stretching.
Just wondering , is there a medical reason why your trying to induce at 35 weeks
Oh trust me, they don't do visitation. These guys shoot str8 for custody. va law is that the father as equal rights as the mother