I really hate that my in laws only speak Spanish when they're bilingual. I've asked them to teach me Spanish and they…

Brandon hates when I speak Spanish to him because she doesn't understand it . Which I think is rude . If someone doesn't know how to speak Spanish and is asking to be taught you should teach them . I'd be happy to let you know some of things they say if you can remember it .

but it is honestly sooooo frustrating. being somewhere where you dont understand shit.

if it makes you feel better my babys father is dominican. and nobody in his family speaks English besides his cousins, an aunt, and his mom a little..... but they def try to include me in on stuff and me and his mom work together on teaching each other. like i help with her english she helps with my Spanish. theres no reason why they shouldnt be working with you.

Thats very rude of them ! He should deff tell them that is not okay. Like what are you just supposed to sit there & be a loner smh.

@mamateee, I do always ask what they're saying and they just look around at each other and tell me half of what they're saying. So I do try to include myself, it's just that they don't want me included.

@vjsoto, Im mexican & yeah we are really close but that doesnt have anything to do as far as why they shouldnt include you. Thats more so his family in particular because the way people act is not defined by their nationality so that shouldnt matter I would be asking what they are saying 24/7 that way your including yourself you get me. It will totally throw them off like what she wants to know because if you dont speak up nothings gonna change specially if hes like more like brushing it off cus its his fam you know what i mean. put your foot down girl !

@vjsoto, Im mexican & yeah we are really close but that doesnt have anything to do as far as why they shouldnt include you. Thats more so his family in particular because the way people act is not defined by their nationality so that shouldnt matter I would be asking what they are saying 24/7 that way your including yourself you get me. It will totally throw them off like what she wants to know because if you dont speak up nothings gonna change specially if hes like more like brushing it off cus its his fam you know what i mean. put your foot down girl !

Like when we get our nails done and they speak Chinese lol I talk in Spanish w my niece so they can feel what we feel hahaha and we always do it right when they talk in Chinese

@faithfulness88, yeah I've really thought about it..

@mamateee, I've tried. He's mexicansnd Mexican families are really close so he said he would talk to his mom, but every time something like this happens his mom always acts dumb and plays it off like she was kidding. Soooo immature and I can't stand it. I see right through her bullshit.

You should totally learn on your own without telling them lol

you should learn on your own love that way you can be like boom i know wtf your saying lol ! I know its hard to learn but you can do it ! thats rudee Im bilingual & even when my friends who i knew didnt speak spanish were around Id make sure they knew what we were talking about so they wouldnt feel left out. you should totally speak to your man about that situation thats so not cool.

my whole family is bilingual and were really big on not speaking Spanish when some that doesn't know it is around .that sucks you have to go through that

Omg that's horrible.sorry you have to go through that