when I was 2 or 3 months pregnant I had a complete break down. fiance actually had to drive me to my parents to get my mom to calm me down from a panic attack. very bad and serious. I cried to her that I did not want a baby...I wasn't ready for one in any way possible. we talked about options. I could never get an abortion but we seriously discussed adoption. I am shocked to look back at the way I felt about my Lynleigh then as compared to now. I am so ready to meet my angel but I was in the shoes of a girl who didn't know what to do and honestly did not want a baby. so I am not going to judge anyone for what they say. words are emotions being expressed, this mom was looking for help not criticism. I'll be praying for her and even for the ones on here that want to put her down. she loves her baby and that's clear to see, she expressed herself and maybe it wasn't worded the way that some of you would like, but she said it most likely in hopes of some uplifting words or someone to talk to... not this sad judgement that she has gotten. people in this world....smh