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Am I a bad person for telling My son's father he's not helping me at all ??? .. I mean , he hasn't bought anything ..…

Am I a bad person for telling My son's father he's not helping me at all ??? .. I mean , he hasn't bought anything .. not a single thing and I'm almost nine months :( .. I sent him a text about it and he says "I always put him down " .. Imagine how I feel ??? :( .. I've been promised help since I got pregnant .. uhh

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Nisha

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)

no u did the right thing

16years2life

16years2life

Absolutely Not! You have every right to have financial, emotional & mental (reduced stress) support! Maybe someone else can take him aside & talk man-to-man about it. Guys only hear us "nagging" no matter how nice we ask :( Some guys just don't have a clue how to help. without a coach LOL

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Samie Thomas

Мама дочки-младенца

not at all.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a…

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.