but really these mommies that have kids or are pregnant have got to stop with the comments under TTC women's post saying "Oh just stop trying it will happen" and things of that nature , that is prolly the worst advice you can give someone in a situation like this , we can't just STOP trying , some of us HAVE to chart , and take temps, and meds & a whole array of other things. for some us acting like this isn't happening is NOT A OPTION ! When we post things we are looking to find someone in the same boat or similar or maybe just venting , be encouraging and supportive not but please don't advise anybody to "JUST DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT" some of us don't have that privilege #RantOver #GoodNight