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Pregnancy to me is not exciting. Everyday I throw up EVERYDAY I feel like crap. What's the matter w…

Pregnancy to me is not exciting. Everyday I throw up EVERYDAY I feel like crap. What's the matter w me? Can it really be so bad? Dr says it's normal. But the way I feel is not right. Even after I throw up I have this feeling inside my body that makes me feel sick all day long. I don't know what to do anymore. I promise you ladies I don't complain in here just to be a pain but I feel like I just can't do it. In my chest it feels terrible in the inside of m body I feel so weak I feel like it hurts to breath. I eat, I drink plenty of fluids, I snack. It doesn't help. Again the Dr says it's my pregnancy symptoms. Can I die? I know I asked that before but I just feel like no one understands me and I feel like I am dying and I am so scared. If there is someone out there than can help me understand or tell me something pls I beg for advice. I've been crying for the past 2 days of how it's unbelievable to me that I have been sick for so soooo long. I didn't feel like this for my first pregnancy NOT how I feel for this baby. So many things. Headaches that kill me everyday, dizziness that I can't even walk, even when i lay down my head spins, throwing up, feeling weak, anxiety, pain in my muscles, congestion, pain in my eyes, trouble sleeping, etc. things keep adding up. And I ask God why? And I pray everyday all day long. Pls someone just help me. Pls. 😢😢😢😢

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alana0810

Amanda

Мама двоих (3 года, 45 лет)

do you know what your having

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missing54user

missing54user

Not yet. @alana0810

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deleted-user

deleted-user

its really hard I was at my breaking point when my symptoms finally ceased. just keep holding on and taking it easy. fresh ginger root helps so much w nausea and snacking all day. ur really close to everything calming down

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alana0810

Amanda

Мама двоих (3 года, 45 лет)

Girl I went thru the shit with my daughter. it was the worst pain ever I couldn't keep anything for about 4 months

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missing54user

missing54user

@livd15, I've tried everything everything and nothing helps me. My body can't take it no more. It's almost like it just wants me to give up so that I can die or something. It feels so bad.

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missing86user

missing86user

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Everyone's pregnancy is different, hopefully your symptoms will go away soon. I had a rough first trimester too!

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missing54user

missing54user

I am on my second trimester @littleflower20 I thought by now it'll get better but it's worst.

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missing54user

missing54user

I've been struggling keeping a positive mind because of how bad I feel.

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missing86user

missing86user

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Oh okay, have you asked your doctor for medicine? Maybe your high risk?

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klachappelle

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I hate to break it to you but it is normal. I was very sick with both of my pregnancies, I lost 20lbs with both at the beginning. Most of the time it gets better around 20 weeks, but some woman have sickness their entire pregnancy. They can give you medicine for it if you ask. And not every woman loves being pregnant, it's really hard, but it's so worth it. I'm 29 weeks pregnant with my second and I'm always exhausted and I still get sick sometimes.

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missing54user

missing54user

I take Zofran to be honest. @littleflower20 I heard many bad things but I take it to help just a little bit. Also when you say high risk what do you mean about that? I was thinking of the same hint but what can high risk really mean?

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lala805

lala

Мама троих детей

im right there with you. try to identify/address the symptoms... by doing this you may calm some of the other symptoms too!

make sure your dr is aware of bow bad it is and ask for their advice but be open to what they have to say and if you feel its not good enough get a second opinion...that might help you understand/accept whatever the doctors told you more. given that your 15 weeks hopefully some of the symptoms will start to go away.

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missing54user

missing54user

@klachappelle, yeah I take Zofran I have to because otherwise I'm in the hospital everyday. But even dou I still feel sick. The feeling is so unexplainable. But do you understand me? How it just feels like your body gets so weak.

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klachappelle

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@faithfulness88, Yes! I get that feeling too, I can't stand for long periods of time because I feel like I'm going to pass out.

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alana0810

Amanda

Мама двоих (3 года, 45 лет)

take diclegis it's better for you

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missing54user

missing54user

At first I was ok w how sick I been because it was my first trimester but after being the same and it feels like it's getting worst I m like how could j be feeling worst??? It's killing me@lala805

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missing54user

missing54user

Is it prescribed or something @alana0810

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hippiebaby89

Sarah Lynn

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@faithfulness88, I was diagnosed with hypermesis because of how sick I was in the first and second trimester. In the beginning I lost weight because of how bad I felt. All of those symptoms are normal. I am on zofran and it helps, but it didn't always help especially when I had the stomach virus on top of it. They even suggested a zofran pump to help me be able to eat. You should ask about taking it if the nausea and vomitting are that bad. The headaches suck, but I've learned to manage them. Gatorade and two extra strength tylenol and an ice pack on your head will help. Lay down and try to nap with it on the top of your head and the migraine will go away. As for aches, I have bad joint pains now...I try warm epsom salts baths and a heating pad with tylenol. sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesnt. stretching also helps too and a real hot shower. do things you enjoy to take your mind off of it. and try to attribute positive things towards the pregnancy. I really hated it up until the third trimester, I won't say there's no ailments here though. the nausea came back but not as bad ( I was only relieved of it for a few weeks), swelling in my hands and feet, the joint pain and ligament pain and how tired I get after doing things. But I'm content so far...as for anxiety that's always been an issue for me too.

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lala805

lala

Мама троих детей

im 11 weeks and its been nonstop BAD plus Ive got 3 under 9 yrs old to take care, work fulltime, etc, all while my partner is deported to his country..honduras..even though he has no criminal record at all rather we had some neighbors who knew/related to a cop who took calling ICE into his own hands...so its all me right now...Im right there with you... just try to get thru it one day at a time...pudh the drs if theyre there for you as much as you feel they should be. good luck girlie and just remember at the end of this there is a GRAN PRECIOUS SURPRISE WAITING FOR YOU.

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missing118user

missing118user

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Now I'm in no way advising u to do what I did. Because to each there own, I also don't care for anyone's negativity. that being said. I know exactly how.you're feeling. I felt like death throughout my pregnancy. . the only thing that helped was smoking pot. I have a volcano so it vaporizes it. I didn't want to because everyone says it's super bad and ppl see it as being a bad mother. but honestly if I hadn't done it I'd still feel like death. but I haven't. it took all my symptoms away. I haven't been in need of any meds since I was 9 weeks along. I told my Dr about it. I told her the truth. and even tho she can't condone it she told me it was ok if I did in moderation and only did it when my symptoms got horrible. she's had me take blood tests and has monitored my baby since the beginning and he's perfectly fine. nothing is out of the normal. I've came to full term, I'm 39 weeks will be 40 in a couple of days. I honestly don't know what I would've done if I hadn't tried it. cuz I honestly feel it's a life saver.

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alana0810

Amanda

Мама двоих (3 года, 45 лет)

My Dr gave me samples of it. Girl it works wonders. Ask your dr about it I stop taking Zofran after all the things I heard. But the diclegis made me feel so much better.

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missing54user

missing54user

@mssjudyk I honestly thought about that because I use to smoke but I stopped about a year and half ago because it would make my anxiety worst it didn't relax me anymore. But I am so scared to do it because of anxiety and my baby. Thank you but I will have to pas on that. I know it possibly can be a solution because it would help my hangovers lol and honestly my symptoms feel like being hungover.

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missing54user

missing54user

I am going to as Dr today at my appointment. , @alana0810

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missing54user

missing54user

@lala805, I can only imagine how much that is. I don't work and I have my 9 year old but I get so much help. Stay strong. Symptoms can be so terrible. I hope today at my Dr office they can do something to help me out.

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missing118user

missing118user

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When u use it u have to do your research on all the different strands. My sister would get paranoid and.get anxiety attacks. my cousin encouraged her to cuz she's an alcoholic and we all preferred her to smoke pot lol. But he never did his research. U have to get something that is high in CBD not THC. .. THC is what makes u paranoid and get anxiety. while the CBD blocks pain receptors. I don't just smoke anything I can.get my hands on. I go to the.cannabis club and get strains that are low in THC and high in CBD. . that way I'm not 'high'.

they extract the CBD from the plant and give it to cancer patients and patients with seizures etc. .. it's really amazing.

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missing54user

missing54user

That's so true. The first time I got a panic attack was because I had got it from somewhere else and I think it wasn't so good. Got a panic attack. But after that the other times I did it I would be. So paranoid so that's when I just stopped. I couldn't do it no more. And I was a smoker to like over 4 years. I didn't have a hard time stoping. I just couldn't do it w panic attacks so I let it go easily. And never smoked agin. Don't plan to. Lol @mssjudyk

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missing118user

missing118user

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that's good! I wish my sister could do that with the alcohol. .. I lived with her for a few months, she's a single momma and has 3 boys. So we were helping each other out. she's a functional alcoholic. but she bench drinks, I went through he'll with her, and in the end she kicked me out her house (mind u we were in Hawaii, it's only her and a couple of my brothers that live there, one of them was staying with her too And the other lived at his gfs house) so I was basically homeless. .. because I would throw her liquor away. Shed do the dumbest things ever and expect me to just sit there and watch her make a fool out of her self, she tried going outside Naked -_- and my nephews were there. . the oldest is 9. I haven't talked to her since then. I told her I'd never forget that in my life. I wish she could just put down the liquor and never do it again too..

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missing54user

missing54user

It's hard to let go of alcohol, @mssjudyk I would drink a lot too and that's what would kill me too w my anxiety. Alcohol makes u do dumb stuff. I do not miss those days

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lala805

lala

Мама троих детей

oh good you have an appt today. i wish you the best of luck!

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missing54user

missing54user

@lala805, thank you. I am here now just waiting.

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lala805

lala

Мама троих детей

good lets see what they say

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