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Мама дочки-младенца

like i need to vent....ok i knkw breastfeeding is important i get that but the thing is my milk hasnt come nd what she…

like i need to vent....ok i knkw breastfeeding is important i get that but the thing is my milk hasnt come nd what she sucks on doesnt fill her up so i started formula...but here at the hospital they are making me feel like a bad mother beacuse i dont want to try again. Am sorry but wirh the formula she gets filled nd she sleeps nd isnt fussy but if i breastfeed she crys cuz i dont produce enough milk. Its been three days nd they still dont understand i dont want to breasfeed now. Omg why is it so hard for them to understand. Its not like ama starve my child just cuz they want me to breastfeed. Smh i really needa go home i hate beinf in the hospital

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irisedith

irisedithМама дочки-младенца

next time tell them that if they dont give you the formula then you wanna complain to their supervisor and you will give a bad rep to them and the hospital, thats your kid not theirs

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joana

First Time MomМама дочки-младенца

@irisedith, yea nd like i dont want her to be suffering nd pain of hunger just cuz they dont want to give md formula...she like had low blood nd wasnt good in color nd am like cuz u nurses dont give me formula to the point where theg told me they might have to keep the babh another day if her yellowness doesnt go away. smh like i didnt gp through all that to not go home wit her like hell no

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joana

First Time MomМама дочки-младенца

@ashley_abby20, yea i know girl it feels bad when they tell u that u should breastfeed nd not formula or enfamil. but its like damn its my choice as well sp back off u didnt go through this well maybe yes but i was in pain from labor nd them pressuring u i just wanted go punch them i swear

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joana

First Time MomМама дочки-младенца

@elenaj, girl i was about to go off on them but my mom saod just keep calm nd lst them tlk cuz i have a bad temper nd i would have cursed them out

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joana

First Time MomМама дочки-младенца

@firstbaby_girl, girl i tell them like its my decision i know the benefits ok sp stop. nd like i understand its their job but like damn they needa stop. it was only one nurse that understood nd didnt pressure me nd the lady that takes the picture too.

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irisedith

irisedithМама дочки-младенца

do not feel bad i did not produce enough milk either i had colostrum for a week and when i got out the hospital she lost a whole pound in just 2 days so I supplemented and after a week my milk dried up , the hospital didnt even offer me formula and i was at good sam too but here in Pennsylvania

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adrien.ayliena

Ashley😘

@joana, Formula an breast milk is mostly the same thing just formula is heavier than breast milk an it's not like something will go wrong just for choosing formula...these woman need to get a grip an get their facts right lol !!

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adrien.ayliena

Ashley😘

@joana, That's how the hospital that I gave birth in was doing the same shit so I put them in their place quick because what your going thru is the same thing that I went thru an no one understands but you... So now my son drinks Enfamil🐰as well

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missing9user

missing9userМама троих детей

Ohok my friend had her baby there . Don't let them make you feel bad . The nurses were like that at California Hospital too when I had my youngest daughter .

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firstbaby_girl

JennaМама дочки-младенца

you do what you want to. tell them if they keep pressuring you and making you feel bad that you'll report them

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joana

First Time MomМама дочки-младенца

the good samaritan am in cali @elenaj

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missing9user

missing9userМама троих детей

What hospital are you at ?

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is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a…

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page