Last night hubby and I got in an argument well today he woke up and left the house.. So then when he left I packed my…

no relationship is easy. but getting up and walking away shouldn't be that easy, learning how to talk things out and admitting to one's fault is a very hard thing to do, but y'all gotta do it. Try and talk things out first. there have been many times I've wanted to do it.. but each time I.suck it up and we end up talking it.out, we try and find a solution to the problem and we always do. He's learned not to walk out on me like he used to, he'd just get in his car and drive off and not come till hours later.. I know he'd do it to calm down, he'd go for drives or visit his friends, go to the bar etc... after two years he's learned to take a deep breathe and explain himself so I can understand where he's coming from. he's learned to admit when he's wrong and apologizes, so now we still argue, but literally at the end of the night we talk it out, make sure we understand each other, kiss and put it behind us...

@mssjudyk, it's not the first time I've gotten in an argument with him, I've told him many things and always talked to him and have never lied to him, on the other hand he continues to lie to me and to walk away he left at 9 this morning he won't be home till 7pm because he rather spend his money on his car then buy his baby the bassinet .. Or crib ! He already spent 900$ on the car and want to spend more ! It's ridiculous how I have to beg him for him to buy the baby the bassinet/crib and all he says is he doesn't have money .. Like I'm tired of all of it

that's how my bf is... so I went on Facebook and got all my baby's things myself. . the bassinet I got looks brand-new the lady told me she on my used it once cuz her hubby got her another one u could detach and put on bed as a co sleeper. . I've washed it and cleaned it. everything my son has is because of me. I'm happy I can say that. He hasn't bought nothing for the baby, he doesn't have the" money for it" either.. I was really upset about it. But took matters into my own hands. Now he feels bad about it cuz he's gotten nothing for our son, and all his friends boast about all the stuff they've bought for their kids already. .. he always looks at me with an apologetic look when they bring the subject up.

@mssjudyk, but see my husband doesn't even let me work! He says he has money and then says he doesn't that's what pisses me off..

omg lol I'm sorry but it feels like we're in the same situation except I'm too pregnant to get a job, he's due July 4th. He said he doesn't have enough money to be giving me (even tho I was the only working in my first trimester, paying All the bills and buying everything we needed myself with no.help from him, even tho he was working) so I said fine. I went to the county and got myself food stamps and cash aid. they give me about 300 in cash a month. I just got it Like 3 months ago cuz I was tired of depending on him when I knew he wouldn't get stuff done. I told county we live together but I have to pay rent and am unable.to work cuz no one wants to hire a pregnant lady, at the time I was 7 months, I'm close to popping now. I can't wait till I can work! I'm looking forward to spending as much time as I can with my son but I gotta work..

he got a part time job in the beginning but idk where all that money went... now he has a great job but is the only one working. .. he keeps bugging me about work which is irritating cuz he's not the one that's pregnant. .. doesn't understand no one wants to hire u wen u r lol