so kinda long but oh well... I made a comment on a mommy FB post that was asking what she should do…
so kinda long but oh well... I made a comment on a mommy FB post that was asking what she should do as far as pumping breast milk for when the baby is with dad.. well my answer to that was that my fiancé's ex wouldn't allow day or over night visits until the baby was 1 yr old and off the tit. I said it was a bond you can never get back and that I understood why she did it that way. well I got a huge response from everyone.. I thought it was just a simple comment but I guess not most applauded me on being so understanding and what not. idk but I thought it was nice but it was just such a simple comment.
queenmother·
I think it's because rarely do you see women actually treat the mothers of their SO's other children with the Sam respect that they would want. Most just want to bash each other and make life miserable. People need to see what real co-parenting looks like and it seems like y'all have it! Good for you guys!
Danielle·
Мама троих детей
@queenmother, thanks and yeah we are Co parenting for now, but knowing the condition she keeps the kids in and the fact that she dosnt reinforce stability with going back and forth makes it very hard to want to continue Co parenting
queenmother·
As long as you are doing what's best for the kids no one can fault you @aphrodite2014 it's when people do things just to be spiteful that bugs the crap out of me. Your child is not a pawn in a game. Sometimes the right thing isn't always easy but it's always worth it.